surfergirl Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 Have you ever been attracted to someone who's totally not your type? I saw this cowboy (a real cowboy) and he has totally thrown me for a loop. I've always been into the athletic type but this one is confusing me. I can't get him outa my head. What am I going to do? I think it's his rough and rugged look that is making me gaga. How do I get this man outa my head??
alicia24 Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 I'm only allowed to date guys I'm not attracted to. I'm not attracted to my own race and i cant date guys outside my race. go ride that cowboy girly and enjoy every second of it
Haunani Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 sometimes we gotta change it, spice things up a bit, keeps it interesting. I know that cowboys aren't my *type* either, but boy someone sent me this email with a cowboy from behind wearing those coverall pants, boots and nothing else, but a very firm and tanned butt, back and smile. I'd say go ride em' cowgirl! Yeeehaw................
Naive Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 Oh girl, sometimes falling for someone who seems to be "not your type" can be the BEST experience you will ever have. Go for it and maybe you will see that you have more than just ONE TYPE of guy
whichwayisup Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 You single?? If so, Go for it! Ride 'em Cowboy! or should I say Cowgirl! Heee Haawwww
Author surfergirl Posted September 30, 2004 Author Posted September 30, 2004 Thanks everybody!!! Sorry I didn't get back yesturday but I actually had to do some work....yuck!! Just to let you know he's about 6'2"/6'3" and built and can fill out a pair of jeans if you know what I mean? mmm mmm mmm
Stellar Posted October 1, 2004 Posted October 1, 2004 Have you ever been attracted to someone who's totally not your type? Hell yeah! I can't get him outa my head. What am I going to do? Get him under your bed! I think it's his rough and rugged look that is making me gaga. *Swwwwoooooon* How do I get this man outa my head?? Get him under your bed! You're not going to get over this not-my-type boy, until you get under him! Seriously, listen to your instincts...if you're thinking about him 24/7, then you aint got much to loose but your pride. Talk to him and tell him you'd like to learn how to weild a lasoo and throw HIM for a loop!
Karlise13 Posted October 2, 2004 Posted October 2, 2004 Everyone should date outside their 'type' before settling down. Gee whiz, how will you know if you don't explore a little? I dated outside my "type" and it was a wonderful, eye-opening experience. I was in grad school, working on a masters' degree and working part time at a restaurant. I met a sweet man from South America who'd come here to help support his parents back home. He worked as a dishwasher. He spoke very little english and my spanish was broken. He was poor and uneducated and from another culture. I usually dated men with educations who were from my culture. But we developed a friendship and later started dating. He took me to all these little latin american night clubs I'd never heard of, introduced me to a warm and enveloping community of his co-workers and friends. They had little money, but were never at a loss for fun. My spanish, let's say, improved tenfold! I learned there is a whole wonderful teeming South American culture living and thriving right here in America.....you don't have to travel far to learn about it. He told me stories about his family, about their struggle to survive and about his small sister who'd died of malnutrition. He showed me beautiful pictures of his countryside. He was so homesick, yet he loved America. His views on our lifestyle, our slang, our style and our culture were so very interesting. He said the best thing about America was the opportunites offered to people here. He sad the worst thing about America is that nobody seemed to make time for family or friends. We dated just a short time. I graduated and moved out of state and he was making plans to return to his home. Before he left I made sure to take him to Manhattan to see Times Square. He was so much fun, so sweet and I learned so much more about his culture than I would have otherwise. I kind of laughed to myself when I'd hear my customers talk about their 'educational' experiences touring Europe or Mexico. I was tempted to say, 'try touring our kitchen in the back'
Author surfergirl Posted October 2, 2004 Author Posted October 2, 2004 Thanks guys for the votes of encouragement. I left going to another city for a little while today and never got to see him again before I left. Maybe whenever I go back he'll be there but if not....oh well. I'm going to expand my boundaries now....meaning I'm not going to be so close minded about who I spend my free time with. I've learned a lot and especially about my self....thanks. I know some may think I'm a slut but if you were to compare my partying to a ballgame......I may get on "base" every now and then but "homeruns" don't happen all the time.
blue17 Posted October 2, 2004 Posted October 2, 2004 i heard this answer from this guy I know who has a psychology background, and it's something to do with the opposite person having qualities which you feel you don't possess. So basically this cowboy guy has some traits/features which you believe you don't have (such as the cowboy lifestyle, attitude, personality etc). You're intrigued by him because he is mysterious, and it's not the same type of guy you've seen a million times.
Stellar Posted October 2, 2004 Posted October 2, 2004 I know some may think I'm a slut but if you were to compare my partying to a ballgame......I may get on "base" every now and then but "homeruns" don't happen all the time. The word 'slut' is thrown around way to freely these days. You're allowed to like whoever you want. You can like as many guys as you want. Don't worry about what other people think of you. It's none of their business. If you know you're a good person, that's all that matters
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