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Signs of a douchebag/attention whore (either in a male or female). Lets hear it!

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mammasita Established Member

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Based on my experienced last night with this guy nexting me after 1 week because I wouldn't have sex, I'm thinking I ignored a couple of his douchebag signs and basically set myself up.

 

1) he calls all of his female friends babe/Hun/boo

2) having over a thousand FB friends and posting everything he does

 

Agree or disagree and let's hear yours......

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Attention whore signs:

 

-Rattles on and on to men she has no interest in about how hot other guys are

-Continuously compliments you on everything

-Flat out rejects you but then becomes jealous when you get someone else

-Rekindles contact after you have cut it off because she is drunk or lonely

-Makes out with a guy during a compromised moment, but then accepts advances from a guy at the market the next day

-Tells you about what a jerk her boyfriend is and how good looking he is at the same time

-Agrees to meet, but then finds excuses to cancel the meeting or show up hours late

 

Phew. :p I have more. And yes it's all the same woman. Jesus, what was I thinking? :lmao:

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Based on my experienced last night with this guy nexting me after 1 week because I wouldn't have sex, I'm thinking I ignored a couple of his douchebag signs and basically set myself up.

 

1) he calls all of his female friends babe/Hun/boo

2) having over a thousand FB friends and posting everything he does

 

Agree or disagree and let's hear yours......

 

When a good amount of their dating profile pics of themselevs slutting it up online

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The biggest thing I have noticed is that they think the world of themselves and are accomplished liars. They can BS their way through most anything and if caught in a lie they will either try to make up another one or get mad.

 

Another thing is that they cannot stand to not be the center of attention. This is where the 'attention whore' part comes in. They have to have lots of attention, praise, otherwise they get angry and will go to extremes to be noticed.

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The biggest thing I have noticed is that they think the world of themselves and are accomplished liars. They can BS their way through most anything and if caught in a lie they will either try to make up another one or get mad.

 

Another thing is that they cannot stand to not be the center of attention. This is where the 'attention whore' part comes in. They have to have lots of attention, praise, otherwise they get angry and will go to extremes to be noticed.

 

This.

 

They tend to have little going for themselves in reality so they put up a big front to hide the fact.

 

This goes for both males and females.

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So true. This guy had a gaggle of pictures of himself. Insanely inflated ego. I should have known! Also this: been married twice, longest "relationship" since marriage was 3 months and been on POF for four years. Really? What the **** was I thinking. I wasted a good 10 days of my life that I will never get back.

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If he nexted you after a week of no sex, you were never anything more than a vagina to him

 

 

Men who meet an attractive woman who they can see themselves with long term don't next them because of no sex...unless you're one of those "no sex before marriage" types

 

Nah. I don't need to wait for marriage, but I do definitely need to find out intentions. I agree, I was a piece of ass. He played it off so well though, acted like he was genuinely interested and I got sucked in because I haven't felt like this about anyone since my ex.

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You met him on an online dating site. Let me guess, he's way more attractive than you are?

 

Yes we met on POF. Quite honestly he isnt all that looks wise.....I can do better and have done better. The catcher was that I was really vibing off of our conversations and common interests more than his physical.

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It takes me a while to know for sure, but warning signs:

 

- A woman who is extremely happy/excited to see me

- A woman who is very touchy-feely even though I don't know her that well

- A woman who is will find minor things to get angry about with her BF so that she can play the "mad" role

- A woman who likes to play "woe is me" victim role constantly

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As a rule, I'm not generally trusting of people who use terms of endearment too loosely. It's not even just using them, but there is a particular way in which it is done that sets off my spidey senses and makes me distrustful of the person doing it, and I'm always right, that they're either very fake or manipulative. I also do not like men who do it, it can come off as very douchey and sexist.

 

 

There was one guy I had to next because I knew he was an attention whore, but he was an attention whore who liked to feign humility and act like he didn't understand how his business was out there or why people think he's one :rolleyes:. He's in the music industry, so in some ways I do get him needing to be sociable and all of that. But he is overly friendly with women on Twitter, FB, everything, all of them call him honey/baby etc and you can click any woman's profile and your mutual friend will be him smh. I didn't like that. He wasn't a douche per se....but I don't think I could have ever trusted that we were exclusive with the way he carried on. He also went to parties a lot and had hundreds of pics of himself at parties, which understandably some of it is for his job, but I know other people in the industry who are way more low key and are more about their music and less about the partying and picture taking every weekend and women aspect, which he seemed very into. So I excused myself from that potential drama.

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As a rule, I'm not generally trusting of people who use terms of endearment too loosely. It's not even just using them, but there is a particular way in which it is done that sets off my spidey senses and makes me distrustful of the person doing it, and I'm always right, that they're either very fake or manipulative. I also do not like men who do it, it can come off as very douchey and sexist.

 

 

There was one guy I had to next because I knew he was an attention whore, but he was an attention whore who liked to feign humility and act like he didn't understand how his business was out there or why people think he's one :rolleyes:. He's in the music industry, so in some ways I do get him needing to be sociable and all of that. But he is overly friendly with women on Twitter, FB, everything, all of them call him honey/baby etc and you can click any woman's profile and your mutual friend will be him smh. I didn't like that. He wasn't a douche per se....but I don't think I could have ever trusted that we were exclusive with the way he carried on. He also went to parties a lot and had hundreds of pics of himself at parties, which understandably some of it is for his job, but I know other people in the industry who are way more low key and are more about their music and less about the partying and picture taking every weekend and women aspect, which he seemed very into. So I excused myself from that potential drama.

 

Im not fond of the terms of endearment used loosely either. I feel like this - if he's calling everyone else this, what makes ME so special. In my situation, that should have been my first clue - but alas, I ignored it.

 

Thats funny about that guy being the mutual friend on everyones page LOL

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