lukeishere Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 i was having sex with my girlfriend and she said stop. I stopped and she got upa nd said "I have to go home, it's late" I was like what the hell?!?!?! Then she said she could tell the condom broke. I didnt ejaculate at all.She got a bit worried and so did I.She said it will most likely be ok. I asked if everything was ok and she said it was but i worried a bit..i texted her about an hour later saying good night apologizing for freaking out and that I wasn't to worried. ALl she said was Goodnight Do you think maybe she's nervous and just needs a bit of time for herself?
USMCHokie Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Do you think maybe she's nervous and just needs a bit of time for herself? Me thinks she realized she likes the other guy's penis she's riding better. But I merely speculate. 5
Mrlonelyone Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 In all seriousness that does sound fishy. I mean, sex.... usually feels good enough to stay for the finish.
Treasa Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Men can't appreciate what it feels like to be a woman. It's really scary to realize that you can become impregnated, where you want to be or not. Yes, I would give her some space for now. In the future, she should strongly consider a second form of birth control as well as having access to the morning after pill.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 She's probably a nervous wreck right now. I remember the first time the condom came off in my vagina, I was really scared and I started having an emotional fit. My bf at the time was trying to calm me down and I really wanted to go get a morning after pill just in case. Why didn't you take your gf to a planned parenthood culinic? It's better to have a safe of mind rather than sometime in the future finding you became a father.
soccerrprp Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Yikes, so the condom did break?! You say you didn't ejaculate, so why were YOU scared? Anyway, if she knew it did, that would be a frightening thought. I can see the panic going through her mind. Yeah, as Treasa, says, give her time, etc.
rocketman122 Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 not sure if it was the first time you guys got intimate together but I did have a bad experience when I was young (21)and she did the same thing to me. she got up and left. I was too submissive and she told me a man has to be the boss in bed. I learned from that. now im not sure if thats the problem here with you but I dont think the condom is the issue. I asked women before if they feel when I came inside them and they all said, eh, not really, but they said they feel the shlong spasms when I did. I highly doubt the condom is the issue. maybe you just sucked in bed.
apple OR orange Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 i can speculate many things from this, so i will stick to facts. she hated sex with you, so bad she wanted it stopped right then (i know, as thats what happened). Personally i would have said "no, it didn’t break, wow you hate sex with me that bad, this will scare me for life" and let her walk out, make her feel guilty about what she did. Although she will have done it before so she wont care. One reason i sort of glad i never do sex, nothing to make me feel bad in life.
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