nickkelly9 Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 I'm 6'0 170 lbs. Slim but I've been lifting weights do while my muscles are not bulging they are there and I have a nice masculine form. I have great bone structure in my face, and my haircut right now is sometimes Leo DiCaprio from Titanic sometimes Jim Halpert from the Office. I'm still trying to find my right style. As if you couldn't tell from the hair, I'm white. And it's light brown/blondish. I have glasses, and a couple different pair for different styles. I can't really do contacts, I think my eyes are too sensitive. Last time I tried, I had to get the doctor to take them out it was so bad. I usually wear slacks or jeans and a polo or t shirt. I've been told I look too smart, too nice, no edge, etc. I guess I could post a picture, if anyone wants that I will although that's not really what this thread is about.
hppr Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 I'm 6'0 170 lbs. Slim but I've been lifting weights do while my muscles are not bulging they are there and I have a nice masculine form. I have great bone structure in my face, and my haircut right now is sometimes Leo DiCaprio from Titanic sometimes Jim Halpert from the Office. I'm still trying to find my right style. As if you couldn't tell from the hair, I'm white. And it's light brown/blondish. I have glasses, and a couple different pair for different styles. I can't really do contacts, I think my eyes are too sensitive. Last time I tried, I had to get the doctor to take them out it was so bad. I usually wear slacks or jeans and a polo or t shirt. I've been told I look too smart, too nice, no edge, etc. I guess I could post a picture, if anyone wants that I will although that's not really what this thread is about. Don't really know what to tell you then, you should be cleaning up with the ladies.
xxoo Posted May 20, 2013 Posted May 20, 2013 I am so sick of bad boys. I have been told time and again by women that I lack an edge, I'm not attractive because I'm too good. Why? Because I have an IQ over 140? Because I go to work every day and bust ass? Because I'm eloquent and literate and polite and well versed? Quite frankly, **** bad boys. I watched a marathon of the show The Killer Speaks on A & E the other day. And I realized something. All of the serial killers/spree killers/mass killers/psychopaths on that show were "Bad boys". One really amazing, beautiful Russian girl got her head chopped off in 2011 because she fell in with one. So you know what? Any women who want a guy with an edge, who does drugs, or breaks the law, or can't keep a job, or keeps spouting off, or gets into fights, or sleeps around, great. Just know you'll be lucky not to get decapitated or your head bashed in 36 times with a hammer, okay? First of all, there is a huge difference between the charismatic "bad boy" who beds women and moves on and a spree killer. I think most women talking about being attracted to bad boys mean the former, not the latter. And no, they are not even close to the same thing. Secondly, the murdered woman you refer to reportedly rejected her killer. Horrible example, if that was meant to show how women go after dangerous men. Third, a high IQ and good job are great assets, and very attractive. I don't think those are your problem. Many smart women LOVE a smart man.
nickkelly9 Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 My point is not necessarily that all bad boys = spree killers lol, but I can see where I sounded that way. What I have been told, by numerous female friends, is that they find an "edge" sexy. Not that the man might be a womanizer. But that he is "street" or can "take care of himself out there" or has possibly committed crimes. One went so far as to say if he has been to jail, he gets bonus points. The woman did reject the man, but again, I didn't make myself very clear here as I kind of generalized it. The reality is that after high school a straight A student was lured into what was undoubtedly a close friendship with a very bad, realistically derranged man because of the risky liftestyle, i.e. he was a drug user/dealer and she wanted to break out of her safe shell. And finally, I have been told by numerous female friends that I look "too smart" and that girls don't want a man that is "much smarter" than them. Also to hppr, I have made several posts on here lately. I'm not cleaning up, in fact have never had a date, because I believe 1)my teeth are awful and 2) my look apparently projects "no edge, too smart, not a bad boy". At least that's what I can glean.
Woggle Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 My point is not necessarily that all bad boys = spree killers lol, but I can see where I sounded that way. What I have been told, by numerous female friends, is that they find an "edge" sexy. Not that the man might be a womanizer. But that he is "street" or can "take care of himself out there" or has possibly committed crimes. One went so far as to say if he has been to jail, he gets bonus points. The woman did reject the man, but again, I didn't make myself very clear here as I kind of generalized it. The reality is that after high school a straight A student was lured into what was undoubtedly a close friendship with a very bad, realistically derranged man because of the risky liftestyle, i.e. he was a drug user/dealer and she wanted to break out of her safe shell. And finally, I have been told by numerous female friends that I look "too smart" and that girls don't want a man that is "much smarter" than them. Also to hppr, I have made several posts on here lately. I'm not cleaning up, in fact have never had a date, because I believe 1)my teeth are awful and 2) my look apparently projects "no edge, too smart, not a bad boy". At least that's what I can glean. Find a better quality of women. Any woman that finds going to a prison a positive can't have much to offer herself. It just means they are stupid enough to get caught.
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