iouaname Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 It's been a while since I've been on here, but the last time I was here I had a huge blowout with my ex that resulted in me blocking him in every way I could and then also blocking all of our mutual friends, removing myself from a mutual hobby, and removing my Facebook. Since doing this, I have had a lot of up and down days but overall have been moving on with my life. I have a new guy in my life who is VERY into me and treats me very well (I have let him know that I am not ready to be in a relationship yet and I have told him I don't expect him to wait for me, but he seems to want to and has at least agreed that he still wants to hang out and... do stuff ) Then the problem. The ex. It feels like I can not escape him. After doing all of this, my ex had no way to keep tabs on me. He doesn't want to contact me directly after all the calling me psycho and bashing me to his friends/our friends, so instead he recently got himself an instagram account. Instagram was the one thing that I had left that he and all the mutual friends were removed from, and that I was enjoying. Then I got a text from a friend of mine that he was on it and that he had registered the account literally the day I had blocked him from everything (I forget how it came up in conversation that I was using Instagram but he was well aware). He has told me in the past that he had been keeping tabs on me because he was "worried," and I honestly believe that this is just another way for him to do that since I've cut him or myself out of everything else. I've blocked him on Instagram and literally everyone he is following or follows just because I don't feel like "being watched." I've also made my profile private and changed my name so I can't be searched. It's just so frustrating that no matter how I try to move forward, he always makes himself present and then I'm always the crazy one
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