starrynightz45 Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 I met a guy at college we exchanged numbers, and he started texting me daily. We went on 1 date, and things were going great. Unfortunately then my ex showed up at my apt, wanting to get back together. I was kinda stressed and made the dumb decision of mentioning the situation to the new guy. Understandably, he backed off and told me he didn't want to be involved, and didn't want a relationship, and wasn't looking for anything. We stopped communicating outside of school, but he was still friendly. It's been 2 months, and this week he texted me asking how I'm doing. The convo continued for hours until I went to bed. I texted him a day later, and we talked for a little bit. Thursday was the last day of the semester and we were both going out w/ our own friends. He texted me around 8pm and we chatted thru the rest of the night. He asked where I was later on, and I told him I was at a club w my friends. He said "that's a nice way to celebrate. Are all the guys hitting on you?" We continued to text until 3am (not constantly obviously), when I told him I was going to bed. I'm kind of confused now and not sure if he's still interested or not. He is not the type of guy I can talk to about this, it would probably just scare him off again. I'm not sure if he's only texting because he wants to be friends, or if he's interested. Advice?
cnickd Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 I met a guy at college we exchanged numbers, and he started texting me daily. We went on 1 date, and things were going great. Unfortunately then my ex showed up at my apt, wanting to get back together. I was kinda stressed and made the dumb decision of mentioning the situation to the new guy. Understandably, he backed off and told me he didn't want to be involved, and didn't want a relationship, and wasn't looking for anything. We stopped communicating outside of school, but he was still friendly. It's been 2 months, and this week he texted me asking how I'm doing. The convo continued for hours until I went to bed. I texted him a day later, and we talked for a little bit. Thursday was the last day of the semester and we were both going out w/ our own friends. He texted me around 8pm and we chatted thru the rest of the night. He asked where I was later on, and I told him I was at a club w my friends. He said "that's a nice way to celebrate. Are all the guys hitting on you?" We continued to text until 3am (not constantly obviously), when I told him I was going to bed. I'm kind of confused now and not sure if he's still interested or not. He is not the type of guy I can talk to about this, it would probably just scare him off again. I'm not sure if he's only texting because he wants to be friends, or if he's interested. Advice? I think he is interested. Maybe he got a little scared off at first. He took a little time to figure it out and is trying again. I think that his, :are all the guys hitting on you" comment says he is interested.
Author starrynightz45 Posted May 19, 2013 Author Posted May 19, 2013 I think he is interested. Maybe he got a little scared off at first. He took a little time to figure it out and is trying again. I think that his, :are all the guys hitting on you" comment says he is interested. I thought so too, but I needed some other opinions because I didn't want to jump to conclusions. I really like him but I don't want to get my hopes up if it doesn't mean anything. All I know, is that I've never had a male friend ask me something like that, simply because a friend wouldn't care about what I was doing with other guys. Glad to hear you think he might still be interested.
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