Buttercup84 Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 So I tried POF last week. All the guys were creepy or had shirtless pictures of thenselves on there, and I was just about to delete my profile. I got a message from a cute guy, it was a good sized message and we had a lot in common. I replied, and we ended up chatting on facebook. We arranged to meet up later during the week ( I picked the day ) and talked every day. He would pretty much always make the first step... When we met up I felt an instant attraction to him, but did not expect a thing. We had coffee then went to a nice bar. We talked and laughed , then ended up kissing. And talking. He wanted to see me the next day. Since we were both a little broke we decided to just go to a movie, but the next day he said he was feeling a bit sick, so if I wanted to we could watch a movie at his place. He picked me up from the train and we held hands, talked and he bought us pizza. I met his flatmates and he would touch me when he walked past me. We laid in his bed and cuddled, watching the movie. We made out a bit, then I had to catch a train so he walked me. He waited with me at the station and kissed me goodbye. Before that, I asked if there will be a third date and he said he wants a proper date, as he did not plan on having me at his place so soon. At the station he put his arm around me and made a joke, I raised my eyebrows and smiled, and he pulled away saying " maybe not ". Whatever that means. That was Friday night. I messaged him saying thank you for dinner etc and his answers were just short and polite. Heard nothing from him at all on Saturday. I feel a bit upset as the second date was nice, lying on his bed and just snuggling up to him.. I do not want to contact him as I feel he is no longer interested. I do not want to be clingy either.
Author Buttercup84 Posted May 19, 2013 Author Posted May 19, 2013 I know, was very dumb of me. He stopped himself and said he does not have sex until at least the fith date. But yeah, guess so. Thanks for the reply.
Author Buttercup84 Posted May 19, 2013 Author Posted May 19, 2013 No problem. I would move on if I were you. Will do. Thank you.
snowflakes88 Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Am I correctly reading that it's been less than 24 hours since you heard from him?
Author Buttercup84 Posted May 19, 2013 Author Posted May 19, 2013 Well he just confessed that he is not feeling it. Hurts. But hr slept with 17 girls last year and says he never really gets past 3 dates. So I will not take it personally
PogoStick Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Slept with 17 girls, but not until date 5, but he stops seeing them after date 3. Got it! 1
PogoStick Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 On another note. If that's not what you're looking for then be happy to find out after 2 dates.
gaius Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 He slept with 17 girls last year but wouldn't sleep with you given the chance? He's lying, somethings messed up with this guy and he isn't being honest. Nothing to do with you buttercup. 1
Author Buttercup84 Posted May 19, 2013 Author Posted May 19, 2013 He slept with 17 girls last year but wouldn't sleep with you given the chance? He's lying, somethings messed up with this guy and he isn't being honest. Nothing to do with you buttercup. Thank you. I would not be upset if it wasn't going so well. And there was me, feeling bad about having had a one night stand this year and afraid of being judged. Nothing wrong with casual sex, but 17 seems a bit too much.
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