theoneewhoknocks Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 (edited) I've been with this guy for 2 years and everything has been great except the last few months i've noticed we've been having sex less and less. We use to have sex wildly all the time and now I feel like some sort of monster because I'm always after it. It went from a couple times a week to maybe once or twice a month. I really honestly don't believe he's cheating on me, honestly he wouldn't even have time to. He texts me most of the day, we go places, but for the most part I feel like we are buddies; the intimacy is almost completely gone and I really miss it. I love that in our relationship we can be dumb and be friends- but if I wanted a friend, I'd have a friend, he needs to be my boyfriend. Every time we talk about it he shuts me out and gets irritated, he says that sometimes my attitude turns him off, but I don't have a sassy attitude with him all the time, he NEVER wants to do anything with me. Even trying to get a passionate kiss out of him is impossible. He tells me that he wants to be with me and that he loves me, so why this change? I honestly feel like I don't have a boyfriend, I miss the affection, the intimacy, and the romance and I don't get any from him. We hug and kiss (like a peck) but it's nothing really special now. I'm tired of trying to initiate things and feeling like I'm not sexy enough to get my boyfriend to jump me. Should I maybe give him some space and back off and let him come to me? Should I stop trying to initiate things with him and just give him the cold shoulder? I don't know... I honestly don't understand and would love insight. Edited May 18, 2013 by theoneewhoknocks
apple OR orange Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 ages? he has no sex drive for whatever reason, sounds like you need to talk and already have the idea you might have to split up. The only thing absolute in life is change, he changed.
Soxfaninfl Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 It sounds like you two need counseling. If he has lost his sex drive then he may have low testosterone. He can do things about that.
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