At any given moment in time ... you always know what you want. Is this true in dating

[joystickd]

I tend to believe we all know what we want. It's easy to come with excuses of I have to figure out what I feel or what I want to avoid saying your real intentions. It's simple yes or no. It's either you want them or you don't. I notice the times I have been really mad with women were when they gave a slow no.

 

Let's look at it like this no one ever says "Hey I will take 3 months to figure out if I like a food or drink. Most women that I have talked to say it doesn't take long to know if they want to have sex with a man.

[TaraMaiden]

At any given moment in time ...

 

Is there any other kind.?

 

you always know what you want.

Untrue.

You always know that you want whatever's in it for you.

 

Is this true in dating

 

Not really, no....

 

I tend to believe we all know what we want.

That's a pretty general belief. You may need to trim that, IMHO....

 

It's easy to come with excuses of I have to figure out what I feel or what I want to avoid saying your real intentions. It's simple yes or no. It's either you want them or you don't. I notice the times I have been really mad with women were when they gave a slow no.

There is no question that people have 'wants:

 

Everyone wants to be Understood, Appreciated and Loved.

Everyone wants a partner who will put them first.

 

Such matters need to be developed over time, cultivated, nurtured....

You can't have these as a given, any time, any relationship....

 

Let's look at it like this no one ever says "Hey I will take 3 months to figure out if I like a food or drink. Most women that I have talked to say it doesn't take long to know if they want to have sex with a man.

 

 

Oooooh!

 

Sorry! My bad!

 

It's a "When do I get to screw you?" question?

 

Gee, I dunno... I'm not sure what I want really......

[joystickd]

Is there any other kind.?

 

 

Untrue.

You always know that you want whatever's in it for you.

 

 

 

Not really, no....

 

 

That's a pretty general belief. You may need to trim that, IMHO....

 

 

There is no question that people have 'wants:

 

Everyone wants to be Understood, Appreciated and Loved.

Everyone wants a partner who will put them first.

 

Such matters need to be developed over time, cultivated, nurtured....

You can't have these as a given, any time, any relationship....

 

 

 

 

Oooooh!

 

Sorry! My bad!

 

It's a "When do I get to screw you?" question?

 

Gee, I dunno... I'm not sure what I want really......

NO it's not a sex question. When you think about it when most women say they know immediately that they want to have sex with someone doesn't that mean dating too. Like for example what happened to me she knew the whole time she wanted friendship but lead me on. There are a lot of guys that get lead on by "maybe" women. They say "maybe when the reality it's no

[Jadedbyluv]

I think everybody knows what it is they are looking for when it comes to dating. But sometimes it's trying to see if the person you are seeing fits into those ideals. I'm kinda in this situation at the moment where I asked the guy what he wants and he still hasn't given me an answer.

[joystickd]

I think everybody knows what it is they are looking for when it comes to dating. But sometimes it's trying to see if the person you are seeing fits into those ideals. I'm kinda in this situation at the moment where I asked the guy what he wants and he still hasn't given me an answer.

He knows what he wants you just gave him the option to avoid answering the question.

[Revolver]

Everyone knows what they want, the problem is getting what you want

[iris219]

Women who wait to have sex aren't trying to decide if they want sex or not. They are trying to determine if the man wants more than just sex.

[joystickd]

Women who wait to have sex aren't trying to decide if they want sex or not. They are trying to determine if the man wants more than just sex.

I just used sex for an example. Did I say anything about waiting for sex. The question is simple do you agree that at any given moment you know what you want.

[joystickd]

I brought sex up as point saying you know what you want. This is not about sex. We all know what we want food, clothes and what we want in a partner. Another question is why the BS if we all know what we want.

[iris219]

I just used sex for an example. Did I say anything about waiting for sex. The question is simple do you agree that at any given moment you know what you want.

 

Yes, I agree that I know what I want and when I found it recently, everything that occurred afterwards was incredibly fun and easy.

[Ursa]

I just used sex for an example. Did I say anything about waiting for sex. The question is simple do you agree that at any given moment you know what you want.

 

No, not always.

 

In addition, many people experience dating and sex as being far more multifaceted issues than choosing between soup or salad.

[joystickd]

No, not always.

 

In addition, many people experience dating and sex as being far more multifaceted issues than choosing between soup or salad.

I would tend to disagree with that notion. We all know we want someone.