missjones4812 Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 A little over 3 months since the man I thought I was gonna marry and the father of my son walked out and moved in with the home wrecker. More good days than bad, but still in pain. No contact unless it deals with our son. A lot of male attention the past few weeks but I don't want it. He is still with the one that ruined us, makes me sick...Sick of wasting time, energy and tears on him...not sure where to go from here.
Leigh 87 Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 Wow that is awful, I am so sorry you had to go through that! I too recently lost a man who I thought I was going to marry, albeit I have no kids with him. I cannot imagine the pain your in, all I can do is offer support... I am truly sorry for how bad your feeling. I know what you mean by having good days - it is great you still feel happy, and most of the time! I too, feel happy a lot of the time yet still have dark and deeply painful moments. Just know that with no contact besides relations involving your child, you WILL start to feel better as time goes by. All anyone can advice is that time heals the pain. Do not be like some people who do not let go months and months later, just accept it is over and process that through NC. I am still in the first 2 weeks post B./U and so I have not 100% acceped it is forever. I was not left for another women; what a home wrecker! I hope he had the balls to tell you early on that he was getting strong enough feelings for someone else, to warrant leaving you. I am sure he just cheated and lied though. Jerk. The thing we both have in common is that we need to maintain NC and move on. We will both find that time will heal things. I hope you start to feel better soon.
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