MichelleSummers1304 Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 I've been seeing this guy off and on for 3 yrs. We've deployed together twice. There's been a lot of drama but in the end he always comes back to me. In all this time we've had a kid together and he just now becoming a part of her life. We spend time together like a family but when I'm not around he's off doing dirt(sleeping around). I always call him out on it and we argue for a bit but things always go back to the way they were. We can never stay mad at each other. I've thought about ending it completely but the problem is that I know for a fact if I were to get in a relationship with someone else I would leave them for him in a heartbeat.
dreamingoftigers Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 Then STAY OUT OF RELATIONSHIPS until you can have a healthy one. No point in getting an STD because you "can't stay mad." Stay mad, mad enough to call it quits and get your head on straight. You've got someone more important to role model for.
Author MichelleSummers1304 Posted May 18, 2013 Author Posted May 18, 2013 I get what your saying but with the "hookup culture" it's hard to find a decent guy that actually wants to get to know you. I've tried talking to other guys and instead of asking me on a date they ask if I'll just come chill at their place and I'm not falling for it. I'd rather be doing something familiar with the same jerk then let a new one in.
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