Milo25 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 (edited) Hello you guys I am new to this website and I'm young so I need a lot of advice. Okay so I met this guy (sorry if this is long) my first year of college which was last year in August. I really liked him and I was heart broken from my previous relationship. So me and the guy started talking. One thing led to another and i ended up having sex with him a day after meeting him knowing full well he had a girlfriend of four years. He told me not to get attached and whatever so i agreed even though it already happened. So soon after, he started blowing up my phone and we began to hand out (no sex). Weeks passed and we began to get closer and closer. His girlfriend was in another town so he was sad and lonely. He told me he wanted to be with me, i was so thrilled. Then a week later he broke up with me. I cried and cried and he begged for me back and i took him back. Then again, he started it again, after a while it became a cycle. Then there were the girls. He brought a girl out there to the school when me and him were technically talking. And he talked to another girl. But he begged and i forgave..again. Then he left me soon after..again. After a while i didnt care if he was with me as long as he was "with me". So fast forward..my semester ended and we started the spring semester. Me and him were still close. Him and his girl had finally broke up but he still wouldn't make me his girlfriend. Me and him got into many physical altercations on campus and i would always go back and sometimes him. Til i noticed he started driftind away..I tried so hard to hang on:( i would be up his a**! all they long and he was distant. Once night i was in his room and we had a big fight and he drug me out in front of all his friends and i had nothing but my panties on. I fell into a deep depression..I checked in a mental institution for depression and i was there for three days. I begged him for help before i went and told him i was suicidal and he ignored me. When I got out I told him what happened and he acted concerned saying "im sorry" w.e. So after a week, i came back on campus only to find out that he told everyone I tried to kill myself and to top it off..he had a new girlfriend and spent every waking moment throwing it in my face. I was so sad and hurt. He was putting pictures of her and him on facebook, buying her roses, going out and i felt so dumb and ashamed. He said mean things to me like "you should have died instead of your brother" and "you need to go back to the crazy home because your sad, depressed, miserable, and suicidal." Then he continued not giving a damn. I qquestioned my self worth. I lost all my respect for this man. Giving him sex when he wanted even after he cheated. He would name call me like saying I was a hoe and stuff. So when the semester ended, i decided that i was choosing to be happy. I finally withdrew and I've been 16 days NC and i feel so much better about myself. Just thought I share my story Feel free to comment.!! Edited May 17, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Added Paragraphs
siankat Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Hello you guys I am new to this website and I'm young so I need a lot of advice. Okay so I met this guy (sorry if this is long) my first year of college which was last year in August. I really liked him and I was heart broken from my previous relationship. So me and the guy started talking. One thing led to another and i ended up having sex with him a day after meeting him knowing full well he had a girlfriend of four years. He told me not to get attached and whatever so i agreed even though it already happened. So soon after, he started blowing up my phone and we began to hand out (no sex). Weeks passed and we began to get closer and closer. His girlfriend was in another town so he was sad and lonely. He told me he wanted to be with me, i was so thrilled. Then a week later he broke up with me. I cried and cried and he begged for me back and i took him back. Then again, he started it again, after a while it became a cycle. Then there were the girls. He brought a girl out there to the school when me and him were technically talking. And he talked to another girl. But he begged and i forgave..again. Then he left me soon after..again. After a while i didnt care if he was with me as long as he was "with me". So fast forward..my semester ended and we started the spring semester. Me and him were still close. Him and his girl had finally broke up but he still wouldn't make me his girlfriend. Me and him got into many physical altercations on campus and i would always go back and sometimes him. Til i noticed he started driftind away..I tried so hard to hang on:( i would be up his a**! all they long and he was distant. Once night i was in his room and we had a big fight and he drug me out in front of all his friends and i had nothing but my panties on. I fell into a deep depression..I checked in a mental institution for depression and i was there for three days. I begged him for help before i went and told him i was suicidal and he ignored me. When I got out I told him what happened and he acted concerned saying "im sorry" w.e. So after a week, i came back on campus only to find out that he told everyone I tried to kill myself and to top it off..he had a new girlfriend and spent every waking moment throwing it in my face. I was so sad and hurt. He was putting pictures of her and him on facebook, buying her roses, going out and i felt so dumb and ashamed. He said mean things to me like "you should have died instead of your brother" and "you need to go back to the crazy home because your sad, depressed, miserable, and suicidal." Then he continued not giving a damn. I qquestioned my self worth. I lost all my respect for this man. Giving him sex when he wanted even after he cheated. He would name call me like saying I was a hoe and stuff. So when the semester ended, i decided that i was choosing to be happy. I finally withdrew and I've been 16 days NC and i feel so much better about myself. Just thought I share my story Feel free to comment.!! Well done you for taking control back!! Some vile people are just out to trap, use and abuse and you got outta there. Don't beat yourself up, we all make mistakes and you are young and learning so you are gonna be fine. I'm so sorry, it sounds like you have had a rough ride but believe me you will one day be in a situation where you are deeply happy someone who treats you well. Look after you and let fate do the rest! Good luck xx 1
aisuru Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Oh my dear, take care of yourself. He is the lowest of the lowest out there. Stay strong and do not ever allow somebody to put you in that headspace again. Take care of yourself and know that there are good guys out there that would never toy with you like that. You deserve better. Tell yourself that as often as you need to. 2
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