wirty91 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Hi! My girlfriend started to call me with names like 1 month ago (we have been together 4 months). I do everything for her so she feel good and wanted, but she most of the time call me "bad, stupid, rude etc." She says it's joking and first I didn't mind it but now I have noticed when I'm alone I'm thinking all these "nice" words what she is telling me all the time and I'm becoming sad. Yesterday she said me if I don't understand it's joke she will say bye bye for me. I really start to get hurt because I get so seldom nice words instead of these "loving" words. And she gets angry if I say something like that to her what she says for me.. What I do??
wisernow Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Hi! My girlfriend started to call me with names like 1 month ago (we have been together 4 months). I do everything for her so she feel good and wanted, but she most of the time call me "bad, stupid, rude etc." She says it's joking and first I didn't mind it but now I have noticed when I'm alone I'm thinking all these "nice" words what she is telling me all the time and I'm becoming sad. Yesterday she said me if I don't understand it's joke she will say bye bye for me. I really start to get hurt because I get so seldom nice words instead of these "loving" words. And she gets angry if I say something like that to her what she says for me.. What I do?? You tell her that if she doesn't knock off the name calling you will be leaving the relationship. Then do it. Can you imagine marrying this person who thinks its okay to call the one she supposedly has feelings for rude names? For a lifetime? I'd dump her. Life is too short to spend it with ass holes. 3
Maleficent Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Hi! My girlfriend started to call me with names like 1 month ago (we have been together 4 months). I do everything for her so she feel good and wanted, but she most of the time call me "bad, stupid, rude etc." She says it's joking and first I didn't mind it but now I have noticed when I'm alone I'm thinking all these "nice" words what she is telling me all the time and I'm becoming sad. Yesterday she said me if I don't understand it's joke she will say bye bye for me. I really start to get hurt because I get so seldom nice words instead of these "loving" words. And she gets angry if I say something like that to her what she says for me.. What I do?? Tell you don't like it when she calls you those names. If she doesn't stop - kick her ass to the curb!
Ursa Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Even if she is only teasing, she should respect your feelings and stop engaging in needling "jokes" that make you feel bad. Instead of acting with common courtesy and treating you like someone she cares about, she threatens to leave? You can probably do better. 1
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