mammasita Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 So POF guy initially said that he wanted to hang out tonight and tomorrow. Well, this morning we chatted and he said that tomorrow will most likely be just the guys but he still wanted to see me tonight. I'm pretty easy going, so I'm like whatever......but a part of me feels like if he was really into me - he wouldn't have cancelled tomorrow. Red flag or normal??
Chief Wiggum Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Sorry, could you explain his exact reasons for cancelling. "Just the guys" <--- what does that mean?
Author mammasita Posted May 17, 2013 Author Posted May 17, 2013 Sorry, could you explain his exact reasons for cancelling. "Just the guys" <--- what does that mean? Im assuming it means hanging out with just his male friends??
Imajerk17 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 (edited) If I understand correctly, he still is seeing you at least one of those two nights, right? Two nights back-to-back actually strikes me as a bit much early on. He has a life besides you as he should. So I will go with no. Edited May 17, 2013 by Imajerk17 1
curlygirl40 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 I don't think it's a red flag either but it depends on a lot of things that you didn't put in your post. Like how many other times have you seen each other, etc.
Author mammasita Posted May 17, 2013 Author Posted May 17, 2013 First date last Friday, after work drinks on Wednesday and tonight will be the 3rd "date". I don't think its too much of a red flag but like I said, I tend to overlook things that are true red flags because I'm so easy going and "whatever" about lots of things.
crederer Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 (edited) No, not a red flag at all. He wants to hang with his buddies. Pretty normal stuff. He's still seeing you. If he cancels tonight, then that might be a red flag. Edited May 17, 2013 by crederer misread info
Author mammasita Posted May 17, 2013 Author Posted May 17, 2013 No, not a red flag at all. He wants to hang with his buddies. Pretty normal stuff. He's still seeing you. If he cancels tonight, then that might be a red flag. Agreed and update - talking a few minutes ago, it just happened to come up that tomorrow night was PS3 night with the boys.
Chief Wiggum Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Agreed and update - talking a few minutes ago, it just happened to come up that tomorrow night was PS3 night with the boys. Sounds legit. No red flag. Sounds like a keeper, too.
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