luvy Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 About three months ago I got reconnected with someone I knew and very briefly dated about 10 years ago. Since that day we have spoken on the phone, video chatted or texted each other every day. He has been the one to primarily initiate contact. We live about 4 hours apart but have seen each other once about every three weeks. We have been intimate. He often asks me questions like do i miss him, do i think about him, etc. He always says nice things to me, is very supportive and calls me sweet pet names. About a month into talking to him he asked if this was just sex or if it was something more. I said since we dont live near each other it is what it is....but its not just sex because i talk to you every day. I asked him what he thought and he said he wants me to fall in love with him. Typing this all out is making me question why I have been so skeptical but I have been hurt in the past so I am a lot more guarded than I used to be and I pretty much take everything with a grain of salt. I think a lot of my skepticism has to do with the distance. I dont know if he is a player or not but Im going to assume that most players wouldnt put forth as much effort as he does into someone that he cant just call up any time of night for sex...and that he has to drive 4 hours just to see me. Last night we were video chatting and just randomly he said I love you. It really caught me off guard and I just said "what????" he kind of laughed and I just brushed if off and continued the conversation as if he didnt say it at all. Do a lot of men say that phrase lightly? Im just really confused as to why he would say that....
FitChick Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 What more does a man have to do to convince you? Propose? Actions speak louder than words but in this case you got both. What is the problem?
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