NotCamelot Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Today is the 1 year anniversary of D-day. In fact, it was this very moment last year that I sat here in the same spot and placed the call to her AP. I will try not, but expect, to have rough day dealing with memories. Every minute of that day is just as clear in my head as if it were happening now. I have not said a word this morning about it. I won't. We rode to work with normal conversation and talk about weekend plans. All smiles and ILYs. I wonder: does she remember the dates and moments like I do? I hope not. All is good.....but memories still cause pain. 1
anne1707 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 It is probable that she does realise it is one year today. But just because she remembers, it does not mean that she looks back on her affair with fondness. I know I don't. This is bound to be a tough day for you but it is also a landmark. You are still together and are making your marriage work - celebrate that. 4
BetrayedH Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Celebrate your reconciled marriage, NC. Focus on the positives and if possible, reclaim the day. Things could be much worse, but they aren't. 2
jnel921 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Congratulations, it's great to hear that you can talk, make plans and say ILY. I am not there yet but still working on it. Memories hurt, but in time you won't need to hold on to them. Focus on the happy healthy new ones you are creating now. I think this is what makes it easier for me and my H. Celebrate your love, the rebuilt trust and better relationship that came from it.
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