OSCAR_BUSTOS21 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 So it's been 20 days and I feel quite good, although we split over 5 months ago. Suppose my biggest question is do I break it? You see she has constantly text me heartfelt comments everyday of which I have replied to none. You see nc means absolute no contact to me. Thing is she text and told me that she has a new job, should I congratulate her or continue my pursuit of ignorance. Consider this I lived with her for 3 years and were together for 4. Am I being ignorant here, you see I was the dumper but she wouldn't take me back straightaway???
siankat Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Do you still want her back? Your info is pretty sparse to it's hard to advise.
d0620 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 You dumped her. Why should ahe take you back right away? She has feelings too. Maybe she didn't like how you did it. Stating she got a new job is not a heart felt message. If she sent you something that says how much she misses you and would like to see you and maybe try again and if you actually want to, I think you should answer her. Don't contact her if you are just going to break up with her again.
OwlSoul Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 I was the dumper but she wouldn't take me back straightaway??? Wow, that part is just... wow! If you dumped the person, it does not mean you're suppose to get back together whenever you'll want to. Anyways, answering your question, if you're not hurting and your contact won't hurt her, why the hell not to talk to her again?
TaraMaiden Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Oscar - please. Don't ask stupid questions, eh? You know the answer already. No Contact is completely Unconditional. No Contact doesn't mean "No Contact except....." It means NO. Contact. Emphasis on the 'No'. Got it?? 1
Charlie Harper Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 Seems the No contact Guide needs a you tube Video...LOL
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