Michelle83 Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 I'm just curious, for those who have or have had FWB situations, is it pretty common they are seeing/sleeping with other people as well? Or is the norm more that you're only seeing each other?
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 I'm just curious, for those who have or have had FWB situations, is it pretty common they are seeing/sleeping with other people as well? Or is the norm more that you're only seeing each other? I've had multiple FWB. Yes, it is common to sleep with multiple people while doing it.
therhythm Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 I'm just curious, for those who have or have had FWB situations, is it pretty common they are seeing/sleeping with other people as well? Or is the norm more that you're only seeing each other? Both things are common... I would talk to the current FWB's about that too. Some people like to be kind of a exclusive arrangement that does not include a relationship. Also if you are going to have more than one FWB's make sure you are safe! STD are easy to spread that way!
Author Michelle83 Posted May 17, 2013 Author Posted May 17, 2013 Thanks for the replies. Yeah, it wasn't discussed at first and now it feels a little awkward to bring it up. I'm not sure I would be okay if he was sleeping with other people though, so it's kind of eating at me a bit. I only had one FWB, no real rules were in place however I did let her know I might be looking to date other women and I would tell her if it got serious or if I planned to have sex. I'm just curious how she took this?
Author Michelle83 Posted May 18, 2013 Author Posted May 18, 2013 She took it ok at first however later on she didn't like it. She got way too clingy for my liking. It didn't end well at all. I will never do another FWB it's too much drama and headache. Yeah, I could see that. It often goes that way it seems. Thing with me is I'm okay seeing him and keeping it casual, but we don't see each other all that often at all, maybe once a week, if that, and it's not really enough for me. I want to see him more, not every day, but a few times a week would be nice. So part of me wonders if he's sleeping with other girls perhaps. And then the other part of me wants to date other guys, but then I partly feel wrong for doing that too since I wouldn't feel good if he was sleeping with other girls. Mind you if I got to a point of actually meeting a guy I wanted to date seriously and things got physical, I would stop with the FWB.
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