transistor Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 I've been lurking the forums off and on. I have this situation I was hoping to get some advice on. There is a woman I see everyday, at work. We work near each other, but not together. She is hispanic (Mexican?), 40-45, average looks, Spanish speaking, little English. She is very friendly towards me. Always greeting me by name, smiles at me all the time. I can't help but think she has some interest in me. I'm 34, M, American, English speaking and don't know any Spanish. I haven't really talked to her much beyond greetings and such. I don't know what to do in this situation. Why am I even thinking about this and posting here? Is my mind playing tricks on me? Could she be interested in me, or is she just a friendly person? She seems much more friendly to me then other people. I'm not used to getting (any) attention from women and having a chronic lack of success with them is causing me to consider any woman. I wouldn't have thought of her for dating/whatever, except for her being so friendly towards me. Now I think of her more and more. Is this foolish, or what? The language/cultural barrier is a problem. I wonder what her interest is in me, if any. And this woman is somewhat older. Also, the M/F difference is confusing. Maybe I should just ignore and avoid her. Sorry if this is a weird, rambling post. Thanks for any feedback.
Author transistor Posted May 18, 2013 Author Posted May 18, 2013 Not a good idea to date someone from work. Yea, I've heard that. Although some people meet their future spouse at work. Maybe I could ask a wider question. How to deal with unexpected and continual interest from another person? Especially, a person that you wouldn't have normally considered for dating. I bet women have to deal with this all the time. A guy like me almost never gets interest from a woman.
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