Talked to this girl for a month - hooked up now seems less interested?

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Hmm, well this is a weird one. Was talking to this random girl on facebook for about a month. We'd talk/text daily and flirt id say 80% of the time. Of course we had stuff in common and would talk about that and everything as well. Anyways we talked on the phone alot too. We both wanted to chill so i was down and she wanted to sleep over? So i said okay. Well she came over the other night and was all touchy feely with me trying to steal my phone and stuff like that so i was like this is gonna be easy Anyways i macked her pretty quick but i wasnt sure if i wanted to actually hook up cuz i kinda liked her didnt wanna go too fast. She was quite persuasive and kept trying n trying so i finally gave in. Anyways after bout 5 mins later i think she was mad at me for somethin but seemed good after i fixed the situation but she was tired n wanted to sleep. She was rly annoying while sleeping kept snoaring and i usually stay up late due to work so i dont sleep til like 7 am and i was bored kept trying to wake her up and what not but she always kept goin back to sleep. She woke up in tyhe morning rolled over and started grinding on me and we were foolin around for a bit. Anyways we got food and i wanted to continue but she had to go home earlier then she thought cuz of her mom LOL i was like yeah okay excuses excuses like playfully i was like u jus dont wanna hook up. Shes like nooo! and we started again for a bit but she had to go before we could finish, shes like nexst time. I walked her to her bus and she wanted me to text her til she got home so she wouldnt get lost which i did. However i found her texts kinda odd like not as flirt or long as b4 so i was like w.e n passed out. That night i texted her telling her she left her charger here and we texted for about 20 mins but again she wasnt rly flirty or anything so i thought it was weirde but didnt mention it. Last night i texted her like "hows ur nervs for the game tonight? ;P" cuz hockey was on and wed ALWAYS text durin it and she responded a couple times but again more "friendly" and not flirty or somethin. I was plannin on tellin her id cazll her tomorrow night but didnt wanna double text when she stopped respondin n said **** it. That night she didnt hit me back durin the game but was postin on fb about it i thought it was weird. Usually id let the girl come to me in this situation but shes the type that never texts first im sure lots of guys try to get her shes pretty hot. So today i hit her up like "hey im thinkin about calling u when i get home tonight if ull be hom eand shes like "yeah i probably will be" but didnt text back after. Not sure what i should do here seems like something might have turned her off or she only wanted to hit it? Hmm...

 

Wondering if I should follow thru with that phone call or even text her n ask her str8 up what she wants from this and if it was just a one off? Or not bother calling her n see if she comes to me in a few days which I don't think she will cuz shed rarely initiate even b4

Edited May 16, 2013 by blocks

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Is that the right move tho pretty sure I should wait for her to hit me up but it just seems so weird so I'm curious. Usually I'd wait but i do wanna know LOL

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call her and let us know wat happend. im intrigued. it does sound fishy though that shes lost interest it seems to me

 

well i called but she didnt answer so we started texting n it sounded like she prefered to talk over texts as her phone was charging and i think she jus prefered it. anyways she said she felt dumb and that she rushed things n ****t and that she does that alot with guys and it ruins friendships n stuff. i said we could take things slow if we chill again and shes like "true" which is like a dry/lazy way of agreeing and i was like it depends what u wanna do tho and shes like like what? think she thought i ment when we chill but i actually ment if we still chill so i asked her im guessing u still wanna still n it seems like she past out. at the very start i asked if she wanted a one off or what she thought bout the other night thats when shes jus said she felt dumb cuz she rushed ****. she actually didnt even think she was texting any different then before but it just seems like she felt rly dumb for rushing **** and putting out pretty much.

 

not sure where to go from here im down to chill and take things slow but idk cuz she was the one who wanted me so bad when she was over so idk why shes like mad at herself or even if she is

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Move on you don't want the headaches. She's having doubts.

 

Thanks for the response. Do u think shes rly having doubts or just feels stupid for rushing things because she didnt wanna ruin our friendship and now she feels like she did? For me i think shes telling the truth and isnt making up a lie to cover for something else. We never rly talked bout relationship stuff and i never said i liked her or had feelings n **** so yeah. Basically just flirted and talked alot...idk having doubts would seem like if we were more into each other and saw each other more then maybe if she decided she didnt want it. I mean i did something right since shes the one who pursued that night pretty much thanks.

 

EDIT: i do wish she would have hit me back to my text when she fell asleep when i said "im guess ur still down to chill then" and something else but even before we hooked up she never returned texts in the morning. i always had to initiate next day. im not gonna initiate for a cpl days and prolly give it one more try to chill for a coffee or ice cream and see what she says.