littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Posted September 28, 2004 I know she has treated me bad and obviosly got over me, so why do i feel so bad ??? we been split up 1 week 5 days an so far ive had 3 days off work im unable to get my head around things.I know i will get over it i just need time i didnt think i was so bad I read another post in here somewhere an read this " Others, however, jump from guy to guy cause they cannot stand to be alone. You might want to figure out which one she is " how true is that in her case .
Naive Posted September 28, 2004 Posted September 28, 2004 You can't expect to forget her in just a week and five days! You have to give it time.
tiki Posted September 28, 2004 Posted September 28, 2004 Don't miss work because of it. That's allowing you MORE time to think about it. It's the real world, you can't miss work because of a break-up. People are doing your job while you aren't there. Work will keep your mind busy. Get involved in different things, llike classes, church, exercising. You don't HAVE to find someone else immediately. And get back to work!
Author littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Author Posted September 28, 2004 She is seeing someone else already, an i definatly know that love makes u blind i feel ive wasted so much time an effort....But on the other hand i feel a lot better in myself i know what i want now it isnt with her i know im a bloke but i got feelings to ( joke ) im glad one of us had our heads screwed on cus earlier on in the relationship she wanted a baby with me i knew it wasnt the right time for us and tried to make her see sence she says now she doesnt want one some people dont realise what they do to people the way they talk to them and say things they dont mean
Author littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Author Posted September 28, 2004 Yes i know i gotta back into it tikibrandy ive already started doing new things hard to do the right thing at work tho as all i been doing is thinking about it all .
Naive Posted September 28, 2004 Posted September 28, 2004 Sometimes things happen so that you can become a stronger person. Just stand strong and hang in there.
LittleMiss Posted September 28, 2004 Posted September 28, 2004 Originally posted by tikibrandy Work will keep your mind busy. Get involved in different things, llike classes, church, exercising. You don't HAVE to find someone else immediately. And get back to work! I agree completely! The best thing to do is to stay busy. Keep your mind off of it and in time it will get better. If you allow yourself to wallow in your misery and keep wondering about her you're going to make yourself even more depressed. Stay busy, go out with friends, and just try to have fun!
Author littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Author Posted September 28, 2004 Not a lot more i can do naive_2001 , i know shes hurt me an i dont want her getting hurt by other ( not so nice guys out there ) thats her choice an i respect that, ive gotta sort myself out cant rely on others to do it for me .
Author littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Author Posted September 28, 2004 Oh an by the way this was my first proper relationship.
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