california15 Posted May 16, 2013 Posted May 16, 2013 I've noticed that the majority of the BU have red flags that are easily pointed out - drugs, infidelity, not being treated right, taken advantage of, lied to etc and its easy to say to those people "you deserve someone so much better than that and you'll find a real man/woman who won't do that to you and who respects you" Additionally I think with these types of BU its easier to start the process of 'moving on' only in the sense there are those red flags to stand on, on look forward, knowing what you won't put up with next time. (Its not easy to start the moving on process, I know.) Besides the NC thing, is there any difference in advice to those trying to move on from a great man/woman/relationship that didn't have the above mentioned red flags? What do you say to someone whose trying to move on from that relationship with mutual respect, fidelity, etc. that we are all trying to attain? What do you say when THAT relationship ends? 1
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