nickkelly9 Posted May 16, 2013 Posted May 16, 2013 I was going to do a new thread tomorrow, but after reading some other posts I found the question I need to ask. Basically I am at a point where I can approach women without fear, usually have a very good meet and greet conversation where we get to know a little about each other, and even get a number. Every now and then I get rejected on this front, but to be honest lately I have been getting a number I'd say 6 or 7 out of 10 tries. Problem is, I am still alone, because nothing comes of it. The girls either don't text back, or we have a brief conversation a day or two after I met them that pretty much reveals a lack of interest on their part and ends with them leaving me hanging and never replying. All I ever hear from friends is how this girl is blowing up his phone, or this girl is texting him, or look at this sexy pic this girl I met yesterday sent me. I know dudes exaggerate, but there is plenty of truth to their statements. And it sucks when they ask me and I say "oh she never replied" or "we talked for a second but that was it". Remember looks wise my style is smart/clean, I'm 6' 170 and lift weights (got 20lbs more to gain) I have blonde hair styled like Leo DiCaprio, and my teeth are messed up and I wear glasses. I can't see a chick talking and laughing with me and telling me her life story, giving me her number, and then when I text saying "Oh bad teeth DELETE". But maybe lol.
Author nickkelly9 Posted May 20, 2013 Author Posted May 20, 2013 C'mon ladies, give me a clue. How come I keep getting #s but then the woman disappears? Just ignores me forever?
normal person Posted May 21, 2013 Posted May 21, 2013 I'm not a girl but my guess is that they weren't too interested in the first place. Giving someone your number and then ignoring them is, in some peoples' minds, a little "nicer" than just declining because you don't have to reject the person to their face.
Author nickkelly9 Posted May 21, 2013 Author Posted May 21, 2013 Sounds right. And actually hurts a lot worse. Getting rejected face to face is no big deal at this point, it just is what it is. But getting a number, you think, hey I may have something here. You think you made a connection when the person really just wanted you to kick rocks. Any other ideas? I'm sure deep down I'm looking for "It means they want to bang you so bad, they can't even bring themselves to type a text in reply".
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