jgibbs Posted May 16, 2013 Posted May 16, 2013 I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we really hit it off. We had a couple of informal "coffee dates" which went really well. We text nearly everyday, but it is always I that starts the conversation, and she has NEVER initiated one text convo. She always replies to my texts pretty quickly, and tries to keep the conversation going, but I sometimes feel like she's not giving me much to talk about either. She's even sent me single ":)" before when the conversation was dying. I have heard from many mutual friend that she does like me, but there is a problem. We go to school together, but school is now over and I have moved out of state for training and won't return to school until 2014, and she lives hundreds of miles away. My question is, now that all we can really do is text/call, what am I doing wrong? She will never text first, is that a problem? Should I not text her for a while and see if she texts me back at all?
ForeverHopeful1 Posted May 16, 2013 Posted May 16, 2013 Stop messaging her and see how long it takes her to notice and message or call. I personally would never date someone who lived hundreds of miles away unless I had already established a life with someone at "home." My H is someone I would have a LDR with but only because he is my husband and I am married already. Lol. How old are you two? Maybe she likes you, but not enough to date you long distance? You may have to ask her to be honest. Good luck!
carhill Posted May 16, 2013 Posted May 16, 2013 IMO, she's the girl you need to ask the distance question to. When are you planning to go for your next visit? IME, in order to build a relationship, you have to progress it. If you're young, and it sounds like you both are, I think dating locally is a healthier solution. A lot of change is coming in the next few years, for both of you. Good luck.
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