jgibbs Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we really hit it off. We had a couple of informal "coffee dates" which went really well. We text nearly everyday, but it is always I that starts the conversation, and she has NEVER initiated one text convo. She always replies to my texts pretty quickly, and tries to keep the conversation going, but I sometimes feel like she's not giving me much to talk about either. She's even sent me single ":)" before when the conversation was dying. I have heard from many mutual friend that she does like me, but there is a problem. We go to school together, but school is now over and I have moved out of state for training and won't return to school until 2014, and she lives hundreds of miles away. My question is, how would you act with this whole distance issue, with a guy you liked?* ALSO, now that all we can really do is text/call, what am I doing wrong? She will never text first, is that a problem? Should I not text her for a while and see if she texts me back at all?* Thanks!
BoneyHadger Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 I'm not a girl, but given your stated problem, I'm gonna suggest this thread on conversations: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/390951-starting-conversations-women Especially this post: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/390951-starting-conversations-women-3.html#post4867880
MidwestUSA Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 I would stop texting her and explore other options. The time and distance separating you seem to have already killed what interest she had in you. If she is one who simply refuses to initiate, you'll eventually get a text. Too little, too late.
Lani Posted May 16, 2013 Posted May 16, 2013 How many hundred miles? Like, how many hours would it take to drive? How often are you texting her? Maybe there isn't enough time in between your texts for her to think to text you first? I'd give it a couple of days and see if she comes at you with anything.
mortensorchid Posted May 16, 2013 Posted May 16, 2013 If you want to see her again what's stopping you from going for a visit during the summer? Texting and phone calls are only so much but if you want it to go somewhere you have to see her again.
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