Talking to stranger girl in a bad place

[The Next Big Thing]

Hey everyone, Im new to this forum. I hope I found the right place to talk with people about relationships and share experience.

I really need your advice on one problem I have. I think Im quite nice looking, Im also communicative but I fail completely when I should start a conversation with a stranger girl. I just dont know what to even start to talk about, for example I give you this situation, most recent:

 

Today when I was coming back from university , I went home by tram with 2 girls classmates. After few stopps, one of them exited the tram and one girl , probably around my age, maybe 1-2 years older entered. As she was preparing to enter she looked inside and we looked at eachother basically. She looked at me so intenselly. She was inside the tram with me for maybe 10 minutes, then she left but the whole time she was close to me, like 2 feet. She had ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL EYES Ive ever seen. Beautiful brown eyes and the white part of eye was so clear white that her sight was really intense and her eyelashes were dark black and nicely curved. And her lips were great too, she had a slim body, very sexy. When I was younger I thought chicks like these are completely out of my league, but she was ALL THE TIME looking at me. She looked at me like 10 or 15 times during that ride. And she always looked away when I wanted to make eye contact, but when I was looking out of window I saw with my side view that she was looking at me for like 5 seconds, multiple times. I couldnt believe girl that hot may actually like me. We were both standing and one guy behind her accidentaly touched her with his bag and she moved a little bit away from him, it seems like she doesnt let anybody touch her, she is selective, but she liked me. I still cant believe that. But anyway, I now wrote just about her, now I write something about me...I failed this time a little bit because I didnt use her attraction to me and I didnt talk to her, just let her look at me. I DONT WANT TO FAIL THIS BAD EVER AGAIN, WASTE OPPORTUNITY LIKE THIS EVER AGAIN.....

...so PLEASE, give me some advice. I know I have to be talkative, but be exact, tell me several examples of dialogues we could have, please several. I am noob in this, so I have to read several scenarios to choose the more appropriate one, or you could pick it for me, but please something...I have to finally learn how to take the action! But I just dont know what to talk about in a place like tram when we are both standing, doing nothing, just looking at eachother when the other one isnt looking...

[hppr]

Say hi, give a GOOD smile, if she doesn't seem grumpy or angry then go ahead and ask her a question. Any question. Ask about something she is wearing, carrying, what she's doing, something that shows a it of insight and gets her brain going.

[StanMusial]

It was a man.

[todreaminblue]

I was out late last night on my walk and i was tree examining with a big pair of headphones on........a guy came up to me gave this mad signal about my headphones...made me smile so i took them off......and he asked me what i was doing.......i was counting rings trying to find out how old the tree was.....so we walked together fro a little while he went hsi way and i went mine...in that three minute convo i found out he in line skates, roller blades, not fond of aerobics...doesn't like the pier at low tide...and he laughed easily...either i made him laugh or he liked to laugh, he had laughter lines......he wished me a safe walk with a wide smile.....the conversation was easy and not stilted

 

another convo i had was with two guys and a red cattle dog.....headphones on again ...i took them off because i seen their lips move ......lol.....they told me about their dog who had been abused as a puppy now was very distrustful, i talked about my dog and then i wished them well, all you have to do is be open....let people in, be confident and smile.....if a guy smiles at me i even take my headphones off if i feel receptive......if i dont feel receptive i smile wave and walk on.............. if a girl isnt on the move(even in my case i normally am on the move when i get approached i stop, and chat and move on) if she smiles at you, open the conversation even if its a nice day have you had a good one.............you will be fine...what do you have to lose...absolutely nothing..deb.

Edited May 15, 2013 by todreaminblue

[Cosmo]

Congratulations, you experienced the power of eye contact!

You basically showed confidence and chicks get intrigued and excited by that.

I got hot chicks interested that way without even opening my mouth.

 

The next step is to SMILE as you maintain eye contact.

 

If she smiles back then make small talk, nothing heavy, just light topics, but also not boring topics.

Once you get comfortable, tell her to come grab a drink with you.

[MidwestUSA]

At first you had me thinking she only had ONE EYE! Now THAT would be a conversation topic!

[The Next Big Thing]

Thanks so much to all of you. Im gonna try your recommendations. Thanks a lot.