wantnicegirlplz Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 (edited) Hi everyone im 20 years old. I just spent a long 11 months with my partner and its now over. I have become very attached to the person, all i think about is her and all the good times we have had together.. Waking up next to her everyday was the best part of my life. I have had a rough upbringing until i found her, she showed me the light. She made me happy. The first time i met her, her mother came out with a cricket bat to attack me, im not sure why. The first night she slept at my house her perants (mother and farther) harrased me and kept calling and calling. I used to pick her up everynight from work, I would cuddle her soon as i pick her up. 2 months into the relationship, spending every single minute that we had with each other, as we both adore each other.. She moves in. 3 months into the relationship her mother calls my mother abusing her for letting her sleep in the same bed 3 months in, i get her some really really nice roses, and her MOTHER gives me a slight chance. Invites me out to lunch but i was scared after all the things she did i kept away.. I should have just gone and met her. 5 months into the relationship she cheated on me I read through facebook, I took her home that morning, went to work and the whole day i was upset after work i picked her up and I verbally abused her, which lead to her breaking my car because she tried to get out and i wouldn't let her (she kicked the front of my dash in rage) Which lead to me slapping her in the face for doing it I have been punished for what I did, i have been to court multiple times and doing 6 months as we speak of current Correctional officer and Domestic Violence classes. Hurts when you do everything for somebody and they go and do something with another person who has done nothing for them. As for being sorry to her, I bought her a pet cat, which she loves to death, I constantly buy her new things when i can. The last thing i bought her was a pair of Nike shoes for her to go the gym I complain alot about that shes lazy and she runs back to her parents all the time but I do love her, and its just hard i dont know how to deal with her issues but i choose to not let her go thats forsure. Now after that, we got back together and we sorted things out. got to 11 months which is now: I went online to see if she has been doing anything and i find this account on a dating website The details of it are of her, where she lives, same birth date, eye color, hair color, tallness... the birthday is what gives it away.. BUT no photo. I assume its her. So i create my own account, and try to play her games. I create the account, go to the gym.. get home and her farther on another number pretending to be someone else saying "hey goon whos ur gf with tonite" and i loose it and say lots of nasty stuff. About her, About him, About her Mother.. I loose it hard because Its all the time, 4 times a week im getting texts from this number and i know its him but he likes to do it to get a kick out of things (not to mention this man is 40 years old) I said things that really upset her, that shes a sl** and a bi*** and a sla* whatever else, and that her perants make her date guys who only just try to F*** her, which is true.. the guys the parents like are all dropkicks Her farther showed her, she blocked me.. she sent him up here to get her stuff. He tried to come in, but hes never been into my house therefore i pushed him out and we went shoulder to shoulder wrestling for 5minutes and then talked. (Punch him, i go to jail and loose her) I told him that i was going to marry her and hes welcome to come to the wedding. The plate is on the table for them but its upto them if they want to take it. When talking to him, he made it pretty clearly that he wont. I have made mistakes, and im doing what i can do please my girl. Now this is happened, how do i get over it all? how do i sleep at night? Im completely lost. Within these 11 months shes still a Virgin, and I have never had sex with her.. To show her that im with her for HER and not sex. Things that we do are pretty normal. We go to the beach, gym, she gets rid of my bodyhair, helps me look after myself, look after the house, drive her to work and pick her up, take her to her parents and pick her up too.. Just normal relationship things. Edited May 15, 2013 by wantnicegirlplz
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