I am a 25 year old guy and only had sex once! Not sure how to meet girls for sex.....

[Confusia1]

I've only had sex once and that was when I was 19. I have been 6 years without sex. I was with a girl last year for a brief time, we fondled each other etc, but we never had sex because of her religion.

 

The thing is, I am not unattractive. I have been told I'm handsome, attractive, good looking etc, but I have social anxiety and I have trouble socialising with people.

 

I am unemployed at the moment, so I have no chance to meet girls through work or anything. I have no money to go out any places, so really not sure how to improve my situation.

 

I am sexually frustrated! 6 f**king years without sex!! Do you know how hard that is to deal with?? People will say they understand, but people really don't.

 

Even if it was a sex buddy, I wouldn't mind. But I don't know how to go about getting one even? I don't know if I want a relationship - It's just too much stress which I don't need at the moment.

 

What can I do?

[CarrieT]

What can I do?

 

Adult Friend Finders - dot.com

Craigslist - dot.com

[Confusia1]

Adult Friend Finders - dot.com

Craigslist - dot.com

 

I live in England, mate.

I am talking to a married woman who wants me to go there for the weekend while her husband is away, but I know it's not a good idea, even though I am considering it!

[SJC2008]

 

The thing is, I am not unattractive. I have been told I'm handsome, attractive, good looking etc, but I have social anxiety and I have trouble socialising with people.

 

 

What can I do?

 

Try to work on your anxiety. Anxiety is women off! It's subconscious, they won't know why they don't like you but it's the anxiety. Women are "security seeking crearures" and a man with anxiety isn't "strong". I'm in the same boat, 31 and have gotten laid twice and had one other sexual exp without actual sex...

[SJC2008]

I live in England, mate.

I am talking to a married woman who wants me to go there for the weekend while her husband is away, but I know it's not a good idea, even though I am considering it!

 

I missed this...

 

Don't do it. As soon as it's over you'll regret it unless you have zero moral compass.

[SmileFace]

Get a job.

So then you can then pay for sex or meet people

[Col1]

Even if it was a sex buddy, I wouldn't mind. But I don't know how to go about getting one even? I don't know if I want a relationship - It's just too much stress which I don't need at the moment.

 

What can I do?

What if protection fails and she gets pregnant and/or you pick-up a sexually transmitted disease?

[sillyanswer]

I am sexually frustrated! 6 f**king years without sex!! Do you know how hard that is to deal with?? People will say they understand, but people really don't.

 

Maybe they understood because they had similar experiences?

[sillyanswer]

I live in England, mate.

 

Then try PoF or OKC.

 

 

Or, since you're not working and presumably have some spare time, just go to the local park when it's sunny and talk to cute girls for free.

 

If you're near a big city go to a free gallery or museum and strike up a conversation with whoever is standing next to you looking at the same exhibit.

 

Might also be good to get a job. I know how you feel on that score.

[hppr]

Go to a bar, keep drinking til some girl takes you home, put up an ad on craigslist, get a hooker, just saying if you are hopelessly crazy desperate there are sure-fire ways to go about it. Not that I'd recommend em but when you hit rock bottom dignity kinda goes by the wayside lol.

[hppr]

I live in England, mate.

I am talking to a married woman who wants me to go there for the weekend while her husband is away, but I know it's not a good idea, even though I am considering it!

 

Yeah and then when you're on the job the husband'll walk in the room with a beer in his hand and start cheering you on. Don't ask.