lamaga Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 So, as mentioned in earlier threads, I've been seeing this guy for the past few weeks. We've been on 6 dates or so, I slept over at his house twice and he slept at my house once. He has met my parents briefly and said he is happy "we did that". Last time I was over he asked me if I wanted to have sex and I said yes but I couldn't (I really couldn't.. you know.. women problems)... Anyway, I am ready to take the next step with him and am glad I waited a few weeks to finally sleep with him, it might happen on Friday. Today was weird. I texted him that I was in the city and asked if he wanted to have lunch with my mom, my best friend (male) and me. He agreed. I was surprised, that he was willing to meet my best friend, who I talked about before, but, you know, it's always weird if a woman has a make best friend and that guy and the guy she is dating are finally meeting... Certain intimidation, perhaps, especially since my best friend is tall, wide shoulders, deep voice, and the guy I am seeing is rather tiny, sensible and fragile. However, the lunch was wonderful, we had good conversations and they got along. But then, when my friend went to the restroom, was the first time my boy took my hand and was affectionate. When my friend came back he stopped. What does that mean? Why do guys do that? Also, when we walked to the car and said goodbye to him, he only held me when my mom and my friend were walking ahead. I said "Are you reluctant in being affectionate in front of them?" He said "Perhaps a little", and I said "No need!" and he kissed me. But it was still a bit weird that he was so shy. Does that mean he is unsure about me or does it mean the opposite? He's always the one initiating contact, he's been very sweet with me, a gentleman and today over lunch even suggested to go on a short trip together next month (which is a few weeks ahead, so, implying we will keep seeing each other...). Maybe I am just a bit insecure... I also haven't made any moves yet, I guess I am scared to overdo it... I want him to be my boyfriend but I wonder if he is ever going to ask? How can I find out if he's looking for what I want? Should I just be more bold? Sorry guys for the rambling, hope you can help me out here... just a few encouraging words would help a lot!!
BluEyeL Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Iamaga, this looks like is going well. He probably just doesn't like PDA. I mean, in front of your mom? Some people would not feel comfortable. 1
Author lamaga Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 *male (I hate when I re-read a post I've wrote and see a mistake and am unable to change it). However, he had no problem with PDA when we were out in the streets alone. Holds my hand, has his arm around me all the time and kisses me in the park or wherever... He did start being affectionate when my friend went to the restroom, but my mom was still sitting next to us so he didn't feel intimidated by her but by my friend?
BluEyeL Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Um, obviously yeah, so what? Not a problem, just enjoy and enjoy the sex on Friday
Author lamaga Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 Maybe I will just generalize this question and post a new thread
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