turnerik Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 She left me 2 months She is 18, I'm 20. We dated for 3 1/2 years. We went out once since the breakup, and afterwards she said she needs more time and space, and that she doesn't want me dating any one, and she promises to do the same. ( I trust her, and I know she is being honest) I asked her out again, but she said no. I want to do no contact, but it's very difficult for me. I always want to talk to her. I won't give up as long as there is the smallest chance we will get back together. I love this girl. I smothered her, and kept her away from her friends. I know my faults, and I have worked on them, and I'm ready to prove them to her that I have changed. If there is anyway to get her back, please help me figure out a way. She isn't going away to college, and we live pretty close to each other. This upcoming Weekend I'm going away. I know it will solve nothing, but I am getting drunk, and burning her love letters. If we do get back together, I want a new relationship, not the old one. I loved much of the old parts, but in order for us to work, it has to be a new one. I haven't contacted her in a week, and haven't really updated my Facebook. I made a status today, and she liked it within about 30 seconds. I assume she is following me or something on Facebook. The status had nothing to do with the relationship! I'm not giving up on us, I know there is a chance, and I have a lot of hope of getting back together. Don't tell me to move on, it's not happening!
Keenly Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 I'm really sorry to be the one to tell you this, and you are not going to believe me , but she is 18. She has been in relationship lockdown since she started dating. The very first thing she is going to do is find some random guy she finds attractive and have sex with him. Then she will get a new boyfriend, probably mid 20's, to see what that's like, and you will both move on. Its possible that this wont occur, but this happened to me, and a billion other guys dealing with a girl so young. They want to experience life and new things.
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