ConfusedT Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 So i officially almost completed my once again NC battle Day #1. I even didnt respond to one of his text messages! Proud of myself since I have not stopped texting him basically the entire time (2 weeks BU Today). No time better than the present to HEAL myself and start over however I possibly can! Still sad, but I think by 1 MO post-BU, i should be a good way to my healing, because if I got through what I did with my other ex before this, i can get through ANYTHING!!!! 1
1908 Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Good luck (: Just gotta take it one day at a time. I'm on Day 1 myself. I'm in the more unusual situation of being the dumper but after trying to get her back and failing, NC is the way to go. I don't think she plans on texting me anytime soon anyways but if she does, I hope to remain strong and resist like you have.
aisuru Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 You can do it. My BU was really unusual (well, for me!) since it was over the phone while he was 3,000 miles away on business and was completely unexpected. I'm almost 2 months out from it. I'm in a much better place. And we had sporadic contact until he returned home when I saw him 3 weeks ago. I even got laid off between then and now. It gets easier. I promise. Just put yourself first. Mourn when you need to, write out your feelings when you need to, ask friends to spend time with you when you need company, but DO NOT CONTACT them. You will be okay.
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