whisperoftheheart Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 hey. so like before, ive explained how it was 2.5years and 2.5 months since breakup. I willl be dropping his stuff off on Friday. Previously I asked if I should tell him how I feel, but surely that's only 'validated' once I actually see him again as I haven't since we broke up. The guy in questions text and is 'sorry he hurt me' but also wont meet to talk because 'he doesn't know how it would change anything'. I have accepted the past, the good, the bad. But does anyone know how I might get him back? we both made mistake and it could be worked out given half a chance. We haven't broken up before and I would love it to work out even after time. Some might call me naive, but me im willing to at least put my case forward? thoughts? Many thanks
BustedUpInside Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 You can't do it. You can't "get him back". There is only one way for your relationship to work out and that is if he were to come back to you. There is nothing you can do to make that happen. The only thing that may even help a little is if you were to give your ex some space and time to get over you. It seems like your ex has made it pretty clear that he is not interested in a reconciliation at this time and so you can either just sort of put your life on hold and see if he eventually comes back or go No Contact and see if you can get your life back. Once you gain some perspective you can see if you really want to get back together or if you were just used to being in a relationship
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