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What up everyone. I have kind of a long one bear with me. I met this girl at my job, and there were a bunch of signs that she liked me, ie the usual, putting her arm around me in conversation, the long stares from across the room at each other, and her finding other ways to get my attention.

 

Anyway during the process of me getting around to asking her out, i heard a bunch of stuff from her friends/(my spys) that she met some other dude and was talking with this other guy, and that she doesnt generally date guys 2 years younger then her. So this kinda made me stop the pursuit of her.

 

The way i decided to stop trying to seem interested in her was to just ignore her. I Know this may have made me look like an ass (its to late now), cause i ignored her in everyway possible. When she would talk to me i would say like one sentence and walk away. After that it seemed like she would still come near my cubicle and stuff but it seemed like she started to ignore me too.

 

And now to get to the point. After a few days of the ignoring , my team got rellocated further away from her. After the relocation i stood up in my cubicle to see who was around me, and i saw her again, she noticed me, and at the end of the day when she was leaving she walked all the way by 4 trash cans and one exit to throw out some trash near my cubicle, turn around and walk back to the other exit.

 

Does this mean she is still interested in me, or do you all think that i ruined my chances with her over some bogus rumors.

 

p.s. If she flirted with 2 other guys in my team before she flirted with me does that mean she considers me last on her list. Because 2 of the other girls on my team both say that im hotter then the other guys she flirted with first.

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Wow, how old are you - 15???

 

Ignoring her was rude, and also risky for your future chances with her. But her throwing her trash away next to you is definitely a good sign!!!

 

Next time, don't listen to ridiculous rumors passed by ignorant people.

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Before you started ignoring her you should've just asked her out to find out for yourself. Oh well, next girl.

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