Louleigh80 Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 I went out with a guy 3/4 times, and we had a brilliant time. We even arranged a further date, but it was when the weather was bad, and as I live in the country I couldn't get out. Before we went out, he would text all the time, asking how I was, what I was up too etc. We then talked about going out again, but never got around to making further arrangements. At Easter, we didn't speak for almost 2 weeks, until he sent me a Facebook message telling me that he loved my picture, and we started talking again. Last week, he called at my house to drop something off and stayed for an hour chatting with me. I decided that when we hadn't spoken for a fortnight to try and move on, as he clearly wasn't interested. BUT, I see him 3/4 times a week, he is always the one that comes over to chat to me. If I ignore him, stand out of the way etc, he will make sure he catches up with me at some point just to say hi. He is clearly chatting to other women on social networking sites, and I have to admit that I am jealous. He will only ever reply to 1 of my texts now, whereas before we were talking all the time. This is the main reason that I know he is no longer interested, but why is he being "overly friendly" with me. I am trying the no contact thing, but seeing him so regularly makes it really hard. Today someone asked if we were together, as he made a point of standing with me while I was waiting for the coffee machine, and when I got back to my desk he had sent me a text with "?????? Hahaha! x" I still like him, but and this happened a few months ago, then we got back on track again. I'm confused, & I think this is why it is taking me longer to accept he is not interested as this happened before. If anyone can recommend a good way to forget him, when I have to see him at work so regularly.
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