Josh92 Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Hi everyone i will be quick. 2 months relationship, 3 months after BU, 2 months NC and cant forgot her. Pain is weaker but still cant stop thinking about her. Im going out clubing, playing basketball, going to gym but when im at home i cant stop thinking about her. Is that normal for that short period relationship? She was the first girl i ever loved ( i had some relationships before her but i dont loved any girl before her). I realy want to move on but its hard when i cant get her out of my head. Help?
IS IT Better late Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Dude, I know your pain. My relationship was short also. Doesn't make it any easier to accept. In my opinion it makes it harder b/c I feel like it was picked off before we were fully ripe. Plus as a general rule the first 6-months of relationship is usually pretty good. So its really tough why something that felt good and right can end so suddenly. It's almost 3- months since mine ended and I still struggle with it everyday trying to understand what happened? Good job going NC, I've been in and out of NC and it's been rough to stay NC. 1
Author Josh92 Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 I was in NC 2 days after BU but i made a mistake 2 times and broke NC. First time i was unblocked her on FB 1 week after BU and i told her how much i miss her and would do anyithing to get back together and second time i was unblocked her again to argue some things. And then she blocked me on FB and since then i havent heard anything from her. I saw her around town few times and saw her in club 2 times with our common friends and she ignored me like i dont exist. Its funny that she's the one who wanted to be friends after BU and now ignore me and makes me jelaous flirting with other guys in club...
Elias18 Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 That's brutal Josh, how do you cope with seeing her? But I'm in the same situation, short relationship and BU 3 months ago. I think it's important to set your self a schedule to think about her, like 30 minutes a day. When she pops up in your mind after that 30 minutes say: STOP. Think about something else, our brain gets wired with negative thinking. As a result we will stay in the same loop over and over again, thinking about how it went wrong and how beautiful she was. Try to think positive, fantasize yourself with a new girl and repeat multiple times a day that you're a great person and you have the right to be loved again. Stop obsessing, it's doesn't change things. Don't have hope, if our girlfriends wanted us back they should have called now.
Author Josh92 Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 Its hard dude, to seeing her laughing and happy while i'm devastated. Its hard to see that she flirting with some guy at club. It hurts. I dont have hope that we will be together again and i dont want to be with her again i just want the pain to stop, and get her out of my mind so i could finaly move on...
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