ORuss17 Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Hi, So a week ago on Sunday me and the girl I'm seeing fell out because I pushed her in a club when I was very drunk as it was my 18tg birthday. That week basically went along the lines of her not forgiving me and saying that I won't be getting a second chance, however on the Friday after having a bit of an argument she rang me and we had a casual conversation which was weird. In the week I had put her on the spot saying tell me if its over and she has never once answered that question. Skip to Saturday just gone she was in the club and so was I, at first she was a bit funny to talk to but by the end of the night we had a little chat outside and even got a hug off her, we then shared the sane taxi and she said we will talk the next day, Sunday came and after messaging her she didn't reply at all even though she had been on whatsapp. I thought that j would play a game now and test whether she really wants to be with me, I sent her message saying a few home truths about what I really felt & saying that she had been selfish, said she loved me and didn't mean it cause she won't even forgive me, and that she has thrown away something good! She replied back saying "I thought if we had time we could sort this out" etc So in other terms she has revealed the game she was playing the come and get me game especially after I had sent flowers, apologies and even been to her house to say sorry. She couldn't really say much in the texts that followed I think because I was right and she has realised, hence why she blocked me on whatsapp because its a easy escape. I texted her before I went sleep last night explaining why I did it and to see if I could get a reaction off her, she hasn't replied. But I got what I wanted she wasn't telling me what was happening between us and by me being cruel to be kind she has told me she wants time so that's what I plan to do. What do you think I should do and what advice could you give me on the matter?
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