dudley87 Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Hey guys just wanted your views on this, my ex dumped me and started talking to me as a friend a few months after she dumped me, i know i shouldnt have responded to her texts but i did :-s anyway on saturday she kept asking me on text to send her a pic of my sexy body, i did and she had about 3 pics in total, she comes across as flirty on texts and sometimes mentions alot of sexual info, i want to know what shes playing at, i made it pretty clear that i dont see her as a friend but im getting mixed feelings, she still hasnt mentioned anythin about us being together again, arghhhhhh where do i stand or what shall i do?
NateC Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Hey guys just wanted your views on this, my ex dumped me and started talking to me as a friend a few months after she dumped me, i know i shouldnt have responded to her texts but i did :-s anyway on saturday she kept asking me on text to send her a pic of my sexy body, i did and she had about 3 pics in total, she comes across as flirty on texts and sometimes mentions alot of sexual info, i want to know what shes playing at, i made it pretty clear that i dont see her as a friend but im getting mixed feelings, she still hasnt mentioned anythin about us being together again, arghhhhhh where do i stand or what shall i do? Do what you did originally and go no-contact. You broke up for a reason. 1
Babolat Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Do what you did originally and go no-contact. You broke up for a reason. Agreed, no contact, no texts. I know it's hard to do..... A girl I recently broke up with is kind of doing this to me; even said she misses sex and wants to be with me. She wants to maintain contact and be friends. I continue to respond to her texts and I need to stop too.
LilySun Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Well if you really want to know, ask her. Some do remain friends after breaking up but if they are truly just friends, they ddo not behave the way she is behaving. Maybe just mention your a bit confused because you broke up. She needs to make up her mind about what she wants. I would tell her that and be totally NC unless she knows what it is she wants here. It's not fair to you that she is playing with your emotions this way. If she wants to consider going out again, decide if you want that, too. But if she doesn't want that and just wants to goof around, don't allow it, start ignoring it.
Author dudley87 Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 Wat i dont understand is that i never initiate the contact and she messages me every day either just sending me a smiley emoticon or asks me a question, its like im just wasting my time with her, id rather know where i stand
missunshine Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Hey guys just wanted your views on this, my ex dumped me and started talking to me as a friend a few months after she dumped me, i know i shouldnt have responded to her texts but i did :-s anyway on saturday she kept asking me on text to send her a pic of my sexy body, i did and she had about 3 pics in total, she comes across as flirty on texts and sometimes mentions alot of sexual info, i want to know what shes playing at, i made it pretty clear that i dont see her as a friend but im getting mixed feelings, she still hasnt mentioned anythin about us being together again, arghhhhhh where do i stand or what shall i do? I think she is playing with you...she just has nothing better to do at the moment probably, so she is having fun and fooling around. She is definetly not thinking anything serious. And you should ignore her. 1
angilina steven Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Stop her love and look for the best girl appreciates your feelings
dirtysweet Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Stop answering her texts. I know that's hard but you gotta do it. Maybe even block her number for a while. That might upset her but what she's doing isn't cool. If she still likes you she'll find a way to get in contact with you, but right now it isn't good for you.
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