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I am getting fed up with the way women are treating me. I don't know what is going on, but I have gotten dozens of rejections recently. I am able to get numbers, but nothing forms from it. They will almost always not respond. At the same time, I know of guys who are high school dropouts with not job or future, yet they are able to get girls. All of this had eroded my soul. I have lost my sense of morals. I am at the point where I don't care what I have to do. I don't care if I have to break the law, I will find a way to get a girl. If I have to go to the middle east and buy a wife from a family, I will do that. If my luck does not change soon, I fear that I may permanently lose myself

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easy..... (2 steps)

 

1. dont put yourself in a situation where you will be rejected

2. Don’t expect life to be fair, just as the sexy alpha male gets women (even the ones he doesnt want), doesn’t mean you will.

 

No one (not even the bible) ever said everyone will get sex... in fact if anything the bible says to actively avoid doing sex (generally)..

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I am getting fed up with the way women are treating me. I don't know what is going on, but I have gotten dozens of rejections recently. I am able to get numbers, but nothing forms from it. They will almost always not respond. At the same time, I know of guys who are high school dropouts with not job or future, yet they are able to get girls. All of this had eroded my soul. I have lost my sense of morals. I am at the point where I don't care what I have to do. I don't care if I have to break the law, I will find a way to get a girl. If I have to go to the middle east and buy a wife from a family, I will do that. If my luck does not change soon, I fear that I may permanently lose myself

 

Ummmm.... do not do this. Please.

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Sun Devil Established Member

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I don't believe in the bible. To me, it is crap. If life is going to be unfair, then I shall be unfair and become self centered. I will do what is necessary to get what I want

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ugh. I hope you do do something illegal and get put in jail ASAP. Nothing good comes of people like you walking around free in streets. Good for the girls to reject someone like you.

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Sun Devil Established Member

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Mesmerized, you don't know what I go through. In fact, most women don't. Without love, life is meaningless

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What? Do you think we all have love? I certainly don't and yet I'm not threatening to go harm men who aren't willing to give me love.

 

Sorry you are suffering but a lot of people are, men and women and they don't say stuff you say...You might want to check your mental health.

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Mesmerized, you don't know what I go through. In fact, most women don't. Without love, life is meaningless

 

I don't have love and my life is far from meaningless....

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Sun Devil Established Member

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Are you telling me that you cant get a guy no matter what you do? Have you been single and unloved your entire life?

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I am getting fed up with the way women are treating me. I don't know what is going on, but I have gotten dozens of rejections recently. I am able to get numbers, but nothing forms from it. They will almost always not respond. At the same time, I know of guys who are high school dropouts with not job or future, yet they are able to get girls. All of this had eroded my soul. I have lost my sense of morals. I am at the point where I don't care what I have to do. I don't care if I have to break the law, I will find a way to get a girl. If I have to go to the middle east and buy a wife from a family, I will do that. If my luck does not change soon, I fear that I may permanently lose myself

 

The fear of losing yourself and the threat of breaking the laws? Go seek the guidance of a professional. Dating and being around women is the last thing you should be doing right now. Getting help for your well being is first.

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What? Do you think we all have love? I certainly don't and yet I'm not threatening to go harm men who aren't willing to give me love.

 

Sorry you are suffering but a lot of people are, men and women and they don't say stuff you say...You might want to check your mental health.

 

I don't have love and my life is far from meaningless....

I think he means without ever having love at some point in your life.

 

Somehow I doubt you ladies have gone your entire lives without being in a loving relationship.

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ugh. I hope you do do something illegal and get put in jail ASAP. Nothing good comes of people like you walking around free in streets. Good for the girls to reject someone like you.

 

Mesmerized has a good point here. This, if nothing else, will attract TONS of women.

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I am getting fed up with the way women are treating me. I don't know what is going on, but I have gotten dozens of rejections recently. I am able to get numbers, but nothing forms from it. They will almost always not respond. At the same time, I know of guys who are high school dropouts with not job or future, yet they are able to get girls. All of this had eroded my soul. I have lost my sense of morals. I am at the point where I don't care what I have to do. I don't care if I have to break the law, I will find a way to get a girl. If I have to go to the middle east and buy a wife from a family, I will do that. If my luck does not change soon, I fear that I may permanently lose myself

 

At least a high school droput expressed his anger 100% so he doesn't get angry. Women smells an emotionally repressed man miles away and an Alpha male can smell an emotionally repressed women the same way.

 

Are you happy? :laugh:

 

You are TRYING WAY TOO DARN HARD getting girls. Girls like guys who are funny, playful, relaxed, happy and not emotionally repressed. They don't like guys who are angry and frustrated inside with hate, boring and reclusive.:laugh:

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What? Do you think we all have love? I certainly don't and yet I'm not threatening to go harm men who aren't willing to give me love.

 

Sorry you are suffering but a lot of people are, men and women and they don't say stuff you say...You might want to check your mental health.

 

The difference is, though, that you CAN have love if you want it.

 

But you're turning down all of your suitors. From what Sun Devil says, he can't get a woman to fart in his direction.

 

Definitely not the same thing.

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I think he means without ever having love at some point in your life.

 

Somehow I doubt you ladies have gone your entire lives without being in a loving relationship.

 

If that is the case for the OP then he needs to try something different other then seeking guidance online or however else he finds answers because none of it is working for him. I bet that the OP has never went to talk to a professional about this stuff.

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The difference is, though, that you CAN have love if you want it.

 

But you're turning down all of your suitors. From what Sun Devil says, he can't get a woman to fart in his direction.

 

Definitely not the same thing.

 

oh please. I'm not turning down all my suitors. I don't have any suitor that's good for me. I'm sure Sun-devil could find someone too if he went for women he doesn't find attractive or one who has a horrible personality.

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Sun Devil Established Member

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Are you assuming that I only go after supermodels. I usually go after average looking women and I even have gone after a few chubby women, but still got rejected

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oh please. I'm not turning down all my suitors. I don't have any suitor that's good for me. I'm sure Sun-devil could find someone too if he went for women he doesn't find attractive or one who has a horrible personality.

 

Just a reminder, the experiences of dating between men and women are not the same.

 

He says that no girls are interested in him and I believe it.

 

You DO have guys interested in you (you just said so). You are simply CHOOSING not to date them. Sun Devil does not have this option at all.

 

Why is this so difficult for women to understand?

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Just a reminder, the experiences of dating between men and women are not the same.

 

He says that no girls are interested in him and I believe it.

 

You DO have guys interested in you (you just said so). You are simply CHOOSING not to date them. Sun Devil does not have this option at all.

 

Why is this so difficult for women to understand?

 

Sure but I know women who don't even have that. Just because I DO doesn't mean every single female does. And most of these men are just after getting their dick wet anyways, not after giving us "love".:laugh: Majority of you don't even know what love is.

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Ladies, mainly because of social norms that make men the pursuers, men like sun devil have no idea of the women around them that would love to ask them out.

 

Likewise, you have no idea what it's like to approach men who you actually like and have them reject you like it's crazy to think you could ever date them.

 

 

So it's a wash. Men like sun devil if they woke up would realize plenty of out of shape (not just fat I mean obese) women with very bad skin and bad features would love to date them. Those women would love them to pieces. Like the old song says, get an ugly woman to marry you. Guys like him can't find dates with slim, trim, fit, and fun women.

 

However, women who complain of "no" dates are just as bad. "No" dates with hot rich guys.

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Mesmerized, you don't know what I go through. In fact, most women don't. Without love, life is meaningless

 

Come on OP let's not be crazy. Not trying to insult you but the whole you're willing to break the law to get a girl, and "without love, life is meaningless" thing just sounds retarded.

 

I do know how you feel though, I'm always rejected as well, and no I can tell you how to get a GF since I've never experienced such in my life but I can tell you need to stop caring so much. Focus on more important things. I'm not going to tell you this will make you more attractive, but if you don't care then its all good. Its not the end of the world even if you never have a GF your entire life.

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Come on OP let's not be crazy. Not trying to insult you but the whole you're willing to break the law to get a girl, and "without love, life is meaningless" thing just sounds retarded.

 

I do know how you feel though, I'm always rejected as well, and no I can tell you how to get a GF since I've never experienced such in my life but I can tell you need to stop caring so much. Focus on more important things. I'm not going to tell you this will make you more attractive, but if you don't care then its all good. Its not the end of the world even if you never have a GF your entire life.

 

Yeah, I missed that. A little too white knight-ish for my taste.

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When women say they can't find a man, generally they mean "the" man "right for them". When a guy says women don't want him he's not talking about supermodels rejecting him, women in general just don't want him.

 

I can only speak for myself but in my own personal experience I'm not turning down women ever, and the women I'm approaching are regular plain girls and some even below average girls, my standards aren't high but I'm rejected 100% of the time.

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Yeah, I missed that. A little too white knight-ish for my taste.

 

Maybe I was a bit harsh but the OP was sounding a bit extreme.

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When women say they can't find a man, generally they mean "the" man "right for them". When a guy says women don't want him he's not talking about supermodels rejecting him, women in general just don't want him.

 

I can only speak for myself but in my own personal experience I'm not turning down women ever, and the women I'm approaching are regular plain girls and some even below average girls, my standards aren't high but I'm rejected 100% of the time.

 

Has he gone after women less attractive than him? I highly doubt it even though he says he has. That's how a lot of women get relationships, they go for someone below their league. Maybe he should try it sometime if he's on the verge of breaking the law to get a girl!!

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