Embracingthevoid Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 So i had a college class with this girl my last semester and I was attracted to her from the moment i met her. At the time I had a gf so i never tried to escalate anything between us. A few months after i graduated i had moved on from my ex gf. I stayed in touch with the girl in my class quite a bit through texting. Throughout this time she never mentioned to me that she had a bf. I took her enthusiasm when had conversations over text message to mean that she may have an interest in me. By enthusiasm i mean lots of emoticons, long text messages rather than just short responses or acknowledgements, and inquiring about me. so naturally i asked her if she would like to go out to have dinner and drinks sometime. She then said that probably wouldnt make her bf very happy. I promptly apologized and let her know that I didnt know she was involved with someone. She said that it was only fairly recent and that she would still like to meet up for coffee sometime to catch up. i thought i would give the situation a little time, it has been a little over a month now. we have had a few conversations through texting and her attitude seems like it hasnt changed at all. She still seems enthusiastic about talking to me and still never mentions her bf. I'm not the type of guy to try and get a girl to cheat on her bf and i dont think this girl would cheat on her bf anyways, but im wondering what i should do about the situation. am i reading to much into this and there is a possibility that she isnt interested at all? should i take her up on getting together to catch up or just let it go and maybe she will contact me if she becomes single?
TheGuard13 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 If the talk between the two of you hasn't gotten romantic/sexual, she's probably only interested in you as a friend.
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