Author JTP Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 You need to completely forget trying to see things from her side, wondering what she's doing, why or any kind of logical evaluation of what is going on with her. Go No Contact. Stay No Contact. For at least 6 months. AT LEAST. Complete, total, non-negotiable No Contact. Block delete, deny fall off radar. Read the NC guide, copy, print and paper your entire living space with it. hang a copy in the bathroom. Keep a copy with you at all times. Eat, breathe, live and BE the No Contact guide. Until you get it. It's OVER. FINISHED. Do the right thing. For both of you. you truly believe it's done for?
TaraMaiden Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 God, yes. This is so over, It's like you're trying CPR on a skeleton.... Jeesh, let go....
TaraMaiden Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 You're very young, and to be honest with you, I don't expect you to listen to any advice which doesn't agree with your heart, because you don't want to. You want things to agree with your heart, and anything which contradicts that is just to awful to contemplate, so you may take note - but you'll still go against all logical advice... Why? Because your brain isn't fully formed yet, that's why. Your 'logical' wiring' isn't hard-wired, so you're going to rely on sharp impulse rather than blunt truths. That's ok. You have a lifetime ahead of you to look back on this, and see it differently...... I advise you to move on, because this is just too much drama. But I guess drama at your time of life, is exciting..... 2
McDonald Posted May 17, 2013 Posted May 17, 2013 You're very young, and to be honest with you, I don't expect you to listen to any advice which doesn't agree with your heart, because you don't want to. You want things to agree with your heart, and anything which contradicts that is just to awful to contemplate, so you may take note - but you'll still go against all logical advice... Why? Because your brain isn't fully formed yet, that's why. Your 'logical' wiring' isn't hard-wired, so you're going to rely on sharp impulse rather than blunt truths. That's ok. You have a lifetime ahead of you to look back on this, and see it differently...... I advise you to move on, because this is just too much drama. But I guess drama at your time of life, is exciting..... Tara you are right about the drama being exciting. One reason eh I did all the things I did post breakup was because the drama that I was creating would fill the void of doing nothing. You have to do what's best for you. Right now it's to move on and find something new, something better. But you will chase, you will slam your head trying to hold back texts, because you are young, because we are young and that's just what we do. I have recieved great advice on LS, yet it wasn't until my mind was over the chase, until I started to forget. 1
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