fizzbangy Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 I have a guy friend/aquintance that I need help deciding on whether to go thru with asking him if he likes me? I hate awkwardness and i asked a guy friend before and he rejected me but this time its diffrent (i think that last time it was one sided just me liking him i was just hopeful) ok so this guy is a coworker of my close guy friend.i really didnt like him at first cause hes kind of a cocky bro,but we went to a halloween party together and actually got along and had alot of fun.after that i added him on facebook and he liked and commented on almost EVERYTHING...then i hing out with a girlfriend of mine and she brought up the fact that she thought he liked me which kinda took me back cause i didnt even think about it till she mentioned it and my guy friend he works with said "that guy really likes you" but i couldnt tell if it was like as a friend or more.so after that i noticed that when we went out to dinners or movies he was veryyyy awkward around me. Now we are at the point that its hard for us to talk to each other cause to me hes so nervous and weird and wont make eye contact with me that its just hard to have a conversation.we exchanged messages a few weeks ago and he was some what flirtasious in them,went to the movies with a group of friends and he sat down a seat away? i dont get it the reason why im so confused is hes very attractive and cocky and apprently can talk to other girl ii heard normal but to me hes very clamed up nervous wreck.i mean if he doesnt like me its not like im a annoying girl that likes him and he doesnt like back i dont act any diffrent. Any ideas?
Ed the 3rd Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 He's sounds nervous as hell. Or maybe to does not want to come off as creepy y'know? Why not make his day and just ask him if he likes you?
Author fizzbangy Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 Im gunna have to do it over message he is really hard to talk to in person now
LilySun Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 The fact that you already share mutual friends and outings gives you a huge advantage. Message him with a casual tone, maybe say you'd like to see this or that movie and ask if he would like to join you. Chances are he won't say no.
Author fizzbangy Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 I messaged him to go out to a bar a month ago and that was when he was kinda flirty during messages.we were talking about me hooking our friend up with a girl i know and he asked if id hook him up with her and i said "no :)" which he responded with "awwww why not?" which then led to jokes back and forth....
Infnitysign Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 I have a guy friend/aquintance that I need help deciding on whether to go thru with asking him if he likes me? I hate awkwardness and i asked a guy friend before and he rejected me but this time its diffrent (i think that last time it was one sided just me liking him i was just hopeful) ok so this guy is a coworker of my close guy friend.i really didnt like him at first cause hes kind of a cocky bro,but we went to a halloween party together and actually got along and had alot of fun.after that i added him on facebook and he liked and commented on almost EVERYTHING...then i hing out with a girlfriend of mine and she brought up the fact that she thought he liked me which kinda took me back cause i didnt even think about it till she mentioned it and my guy friend he works with said "that guy really likes you" but i couldnt tell if it was like as a friend or more.so after that i noticed that when we went out to dinners or movies he was veryyyy awkward around me. Now we are at the point that its hard for us to talk to each other cause to me hes so nervous and weird and wont make eye contact with me that its just hard to have a conversation.we exchanged messages a few weeks ago and he was some what flirtasious in them,went to the movies with a group of friends and he sat down a seat away? i dont get it the reason why im so confused is hes very attractive and cocky and apprently can talk to other girl ii heard normal but to me hes very clamed up nervous wreck.i mean if he doesnt like me its not like im a annoying girl that likes him and he doesnt like back i dont act any diffrent. Any ideas? That enough should answer your question, but if you need to do it just to do it then go ahead and ask him. 1
Author fizzbangy Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 Do you mean like he doesnt really care about these girls but he actually likes me?
othersideofthepillow Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 seriously? HE LIKES YOU! a guy that thinks a girl is just good looking or someone that he wants to sleep with is totally different than a girl that he likes. now with that being said there are a lot of guys that can keep it together when they actually like a girl. seems like he can't. that's not a bad thing just that he probably has a stronger connection/attraction to you than these "other girls" so he gets nervous of what to say and do around you cause he doesn't want to mess it up with you. IMO - ASK HIM OUT!
Forever Learning Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Just ask him point blank. And post back. Enquiring minds want to know! I like your name by the way, very cute.
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