headsashed Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 (edited) So its been 1 year since me and my ex broke up,its gone so quick. It feels like it was 2 minutes ago that i was an emotional wreck but im so glad its finally over, the nightmare is done and i can breathe normally. My life is now on the up and has been for some time,ive done everything i possibly could to move on with my life and its finally paying off, happiness is now an everyday thing,well just about lol. I now have my own business which is going pretty good,it has its downs like any other business but its keeping me financially stable which is the main thing. Not only do i run my own business, ive got lots of new friends which is amazing, both locally and from my football team (soccer if ur chitown), im fit as a fiddle now from football which has helped me so much in my recovery, crazy isnt it how getting fit helps you mentally. I suppose people on here will be wanting to know if in this 12 month's ive heard from my ex. Well, the 1st 2 months i did speak and see her a few times, getting things back and all that, then we cut contact as it was best for both of us,i still heard things from friends like that she has a new bf etc but i was already healing so it didnt phase me that much, the last i heard is that she has yet another bf. For the next 10 month's i had only seen her drive past me ( we live on the same street), until last week, i was in my local and she walked in,looked at me and said "hiya" in an innocent voice,i didnt reply, i just turned my head. Im not 1 for holding grudges but the last time we spoke she was the 1 that said its best we never spoke again, i just respected her wishes. So really, ive only seen her once in 10 month. Now i want to thank all the loveshack members that helped me through this terrible journey, you know who you are, and to those that constantly slated me,well up yours,i got there in the end didnt i. The only regret i have is that i should have listened the 1st time around, but thats life and we all make mistakes, i learnt. Im going to give all those broken hearted people reading this a few tips that helped me recover from what was the most horrible experience in my life. 1: NC, this is the 1st option you should do, and stick to it, keeping in contact just prolongs the agony, i know its cliche but time really does heal,NC just helps you heal a little quicker. 2: Block / delete you ex on all social networks and messengers, Delete or move any pics or belongings you have, you dont want reminders. 3: keep active and busy, nothing is better than keeping your mind occupied and off your ex, you soon seem to forget about thinking about them. Keeping active,as in sports, releases endorphins, this makes you feel better. Plus keeping active will tire you out so you sleep better at night. 4: Take peoples advice, most people on here have been through heartbreak and are here to help you. Some advice maybe wrong but most is good, you will know which advice to take, im sure of that. I know you will have heard all these tips before but they do work, im living proof. Stick to it and you will soon be smiling, i promise. ....For those that dont know my story ill give you a really short insight. 2 and half year RS, she cheated on me. Edited May 13, 2013 by headsashed 4
BustedUpInside Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Good for you! Glad that you are doing well and have moved on
Chi townD Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 LOL! Hey Dude! I was wondering what happened to you! I knew you were making progress but DAMN! Good on ya! Now, how about sticking around here and giving people some advice and guidance since you're now a success story! Stop being a stranger! You're like my cousin Tommy who only comes around once a year around X-mas time. Oh, and by the way, make sure you wear that helmet and shoulder pads when you play football! I know you English dudes are crazy like that, but you don't need to be getting hurt!
Author headsashed Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 LOL! Hey Dude! I was wondering what happened to you! I knew you were making progress but DAMN! Good on ya! Now, how about sticking around here and giving people some advice and guidance since you're now a success story! Stop being a stranger! You're like my cousin Tommy who only comes around once a year around X-mas time. Oh, and by the way, make sure you wear that helmet and shoulder pads when you play football! I know you English dudes are crazy like that, but you don't need to be getting hurt! LOL alright pal, ive been pretty busy lately, snowed under with work so ive not had much time to anything. I didnt have much on today so i thought id come on here and post my 1 year on story,well,its actually 2 days short of 1 year lol. Cant believe i actually remember the date,15th may,the day she got back off holiday haha, im crazy. As for football,its a real mans sport unlike american football,we dont need all these helmets and body armour cos we are like rambo lol, tbh i should thought cos im always getting injured , just broke a metatarsal bone in my foot,it was the last game of the season aswell,typical. Im going to keep coming back as often as i can to help others in need,im a veteran now haha, You have been thinking about me? should i be worried? i hope its not in the homosexual way chi cos im not that way inclined pal, but hey, atleast someone is thinking about me Ive actually had 2 gf's since my ex,none has worked out,my fault aswell, still cant trust a woman ,more time needed on that front so ive decided to make sure im financially stable for a while before i get back into a RS.
Chi townD Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Im going to keep coming back as often as i can to help others in need,im a veteran now haha, You have been thinking about me? should i be worried? i hope its not in the homosexual way chi cos im not that way inclined pal, but hey, atleast someone is thinking about me LMAO!!! You bitch.....Hey! I got my hand up close to my computer screen. Guess which finger I have extended!
sweetheart5381 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 So its been 1 year since me and my ex broke up,its gone so quick. It feels like it was 2 minutes ago that i was an emotional wreck but im so glad its finally over, the nightmare is done and i can breathe normally. My life is now on the up and has been for some time,ive done everything i possibly could to move on with my life and its finally paying off, happiness is now an everyday thing,well just about lol. I now have my own business which is going pretty good,it has its downs like any other business but its keeping me financially stable which is the main thing. Not only do i run my own business, ive got lots of new friends which is amazing, both locally and from my football team (soccer if ur chitown), im fit as a fiddle now from football which has helped me so much in my recovery, crazy isnt it how getting fit helps you mentally. I suppose people on here will be wanting to know if in this 12 month's ive heard from my ex. Well, the 1st 2 months i did speak and see her a few times, getting things back and all that, then we cut contact as it was best for both of us,i still heard things from friends like that she has a new bf etc but i was already healing so it didnt phase me that much, the last i heard is that she has yet another bf. For the next 10 month's i had only seen her drive past me ( we live on the same street), until last week, i was in my local and she walked in,looked at me and said "hiya" in an innocent voice,i didnt reply, i just turned my head. Im not 1 for holding grudges but the last time we spoke she was the 1 that said its best we never spoke again, i just respected her wishes. So really, ive only seen her once in 10 month. Now i want to thank all the loveshack members that helped me through this terrible journey, you know who you are, and to those that constantly slated me,well up yours,i got there in the end didnt i. The only regret i have is that i should have listened the 1st time around, but thats life and we all make mistakes, i learnt. Im going to give all those broken hearted people reading this a few tips that helped me recover from what was the most horrible experience in my life. 1: NC, this is the 1st option you should do, and stick to it, keeping in contact just prolongs the agony, i know its cliche but time really does heal,NC just helps you heal a little quicker. 2: Block / delete you ex on all social networks and messengers, Delete or move any pics or belongings you have, you dont want reminders. 3: keep active and busy, nothing is better than keeping your mind occupied and off your ex, you soon seem to forget about thinking about them. Keeping active,as in sports, releases endorphins, this makes you feel better. Plus keeping active will tire you out so you sleep better at night. 4: Take peoples advice, most people on here have been through heartbreak and are here to help you. Some advice maybe wrong but most is good, you will know which advice to take, im sure of that. I know you will have heard all these tips before but they do work, im living proof. Stick to it and you will soon be smiling, i promise. ....For those that dont know my story ill give you a really short insight. 2 and half year RS, she cheated on me. Congrats, and glad to see you are doing so much better. I remember how angry and hurt you were a yr ago... amazing how we can recover, with a few lessons learned too! Best of luck and great advice! Nothing beats NC.
Author headsashed Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 LMAO!!! You bitch.....Hey! I got my hand up close to my computer screen. Guess which finger I have extended! HAHA, i bet it isnt the middle 1 ,i think someone has been missing me. Congrats, and glad to see you are doing so much better. I remember how angry and hurt you were a yr ago... amazing how we can recover, with a few lessons learned too! Best of luck and great advice! Nothing beats NC.[/QOUTE] Thanks sweetheart,it took someone doing but i got there in the end, its all about time and patience,aswell as using the obvious tools. If i can do it then im sure anyone can.
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