Marine0311 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 About a 3 year relationship, 2 of them LDR. Brokeup in February, been NC since. She kept requesting me on FB, twitter, and instagram but no messages or email. I denied them and shed request again. Just messaged her to leave me alone and not to request me again (spur of the moment anger). I now feel this is a setback because part of me hopes she answers! (ego boost maybe?) Who knows, anyways can anyone tell me why they think I want a response even though she shouldnt answer. I still love her, but will not get back together
Chi townD Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Semper Fi groundpounder! I wouldn't constitute it as "breaking" NC. You're just telling her to back off and you're not interested. Now, if she sends you a response and you respond back, THEN you're breaking NC..
Author Marine0311 Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 semper kill! yut! (and all that moto stuff if youre a marine youll understand) anyways she read it, but no response. i kind of wish i had just ignored it and said nothing. i feel like i took a step back, but oh well. just hoping i keep pushing forward and soon forget her.
Chi townD Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Hey, sometimes people can't buy a clue and will CONSTANTLY be doing stuff like trying to friend you on facebook, and twitter and instagram and crap. And they NEVER get a response, but they keep at it anyway. For situations like this, a reminder is usually called for. That you are no longer together and that you just want to be left alone. BAM! Point blank! there it is! Hopefully, she's mad and will want to leave you alone. You're doing okay....just hang in there. Semper Gumby!!!!
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 (edited) semper kill! yut! (and all that moto stuff if youre a marine youll understand) anyways she read it, but no response. i kind of wish i had just ignored it and said nothing. i feel like i took a step back, but oh well. just hoping i keep pushing forward and soon forget her. Nah. The way I look at it is if you give up control (I miss you, I love you, take me back, etc...) then that is breaking NC. Since you just simply said 'leave me alone', you actually solidified your control, and thus, no breakage of NC. Now, as Chi said, if you continue to converse, then bye bye NC, and hello set back city (population = you)!! Edited May 13, 2013 by mtnbiker3000
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