Author grassisorisntgreener Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 I came here about a year ago in the same spot you are, after many attempts to end things with the OM. It pushed me over the edge into realizing that I had to end things- I was really drowning in guilt. I got into IC. Unfortunately, my marriage didn't work out either. I have to say though I think I couldn't commit all of the way to OM, because although at the time I thought I really loved him, there were some red flags there as well and I didn't want to be jumping out of the frying pan into the fire. Not so healthy. I'm actually in a better place now though then I was- starting a new job, getting my head on straight and focusing on my kids. I really hope things work out for you and that you get off the fence either way- it sucks up there! I appreciate your response and kind words. Thank you very much. Congratulations on the new job!
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