Derilia Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago and we've agreed to stay friends. We are still in contact with each other. However, I still feel like **** because I still don't have the closure that I need. The reason why he broke up with me is because of his parent "not approving" us. I can accept that reason perfectly fine, but I believe there is more to it. I check his ex twitter account and she tweeted about the sweet things he said to her. I've been asking him to be honest with me but he is still adamant that his parents consent is the only reason why we broke up. Would it be okay to let him know about me checking his ex's tweeter so that he can be honest and I get my closure? By doing this I also want to show him that I, at least, know the truth.
happydate Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago and we've agreed to stay friends. We are still in contact with each other. However, I still feel like **** because I still don't have the closure that I need. The reason why he broke up with me is because of his parent "not approving" us. I can accept that reason perfectly fine, but I believe there is more to it. I check his ex twitter account and she tweeted about the sweet things he said to her. I've been asking him to be honest with me but he is still adamant that his parents consent is the only reason why we broke up. Would it be okay to let him know about me checking his ex's tweeter so that he can be honest and I get my closure? By doing this I also want to show him that I, at least, know the truth. Falling for the "parents not approving us" routine?!? The reality is that, you are not dating his dad nor his mom; you are dating the dude! He's a big boy and can defend himself for you my dear, but the fact that he is the chicken and got scared as you guys become more intimate. He doesn't how to move forward! Rather than telling you that he's not into you, he went through the parents no approving us routine as an excuse to BU with you. Such childish and immature and weak act with zero self-esteem. It happens on both men and women. My ex-girlfriend did the same thing on me a while back and then I found out she was banging her ex-hubby already and needed an escape routine, because we became way too intimate as well. Thankfully his dad told me the truth that it wasn't them not approving me, but it WAS really her and that she was the escape artist that was willing to perform an Oscar act of magnificent grandeur. Close yourself and walk away. You do not need a looser guy who can't even defend you against his parents. I am a man and I had few times talk firm with my parents that they have to accept the women I date as they are my choice not theirs and that they have to respect my choice as I am an adult. Hope this helps.
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