JJ02 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 So I've been interested in this girl, and 2 years ago I asked for her number and got it. So before this turns into a happily ever after, here are my issues. So, I'll be honest, I've been known to be sorta jealous, but I never act on it, it just meets me up on the inside, well every time I text her, we talk for a bit, then I dont hear back from a text till a couple days later, or never at all. She says she forgets or work gets in the way (3rd Shift Nurse). Valentines Day last year, I made her some gifts and bought flowers, and on the day I wanted to surprise her, she got called in early. I made plans for the evening but she said her mom was sick (which I thought was a lie, but on her facebook wall, I had seen a few days later where her mom thanked her for taking care of her). So here we are... Still talk like once a week maybe, but shes engaging, no one-word texts, actual conversation. She asks me if we can go on dates, and we even split the bill. But we go on a date, and dont really hang out for a week or two. She has no boyfriend and she hasnt been on any dates with any other guys... Whats going on???
ForeverHopeful1 Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 I think you may have to ask her. To be honest, it doesnt sound like she is in to you. Have you asked her to spend more time with you, or to be your girlfriend? Have you told her what you want? Or is she waiting for you? Maybe she feels like you only want to see her every 1-2 weeks? I dont really know. You should ask her. She would be the best person to ask. 1
apple OR orange Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 friend only, thats it what you call dates she calls going out for food, i did this many years ago (15+ years) with someone, we went out to dinner almost every afternoon, she wasnt interested at all, i was a time filler for her.
Estate Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 So I've been interested in this girl, and 2 years ago I asked for her number and got it. So before this turns into a happily ever after, here are my issues. So, I'll be honest, I've been known to be sorta jealous, but I never act on it, it just meets me up on the inside, well every time I text her, we talk for a bit, then I dont hear back from a text till a couple days later, or never at all. She says she forgets or work gets in the way (3rd Shift Nurse). Valentines Day last year, I made her some gifts and bought flowers, and on the day I wanted to surprise her, she got called in early. I made plans for the evening but she said her mom was sick (which I thought was a lie, but on her facebook wall, I had seen a few days later where her mom thanked her for taking care of her). So here we are... Still talk like once a week maybe, but shes engaging, no one-word texts, actual conversation. She asks me if we can go on dates, and we even split the bill. But we go on a date, and dont really hang out for a week or two. She has no boyfriend and she hasnt been on any dates with any other guys... Whats going on??? So.... you got a number 2 YEARS ago? And you're still not dating? I would have deleted her number 1 year 11 months ago by now and found a new girl. 1
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 So I've been interested in this girl, and 2 years ago I asked for her number and got it. So before this turns into a happily ever after, here are my issues. So, I'll be honest, I've been known to be sorta jealous, but I never act on it, it just meets me up on the inside, well every time I text her, we talk for a bit, then I dont hear back from a text till a couple days later, or never at all. She says she forgets or work gets in the way (3rd Shift Nurse). Valentines Day last year, I made her some gifts and bought flowers, and on the day I wanted to surprise her, she got called in early. I made plans for the evening but she said her mom was sick (which I thought was a lie, but on her facebook wall, I had seen a few days later where her mom thanked her for taking care of her). So here we are... Still talk like once a week maybe, but shes engaging, no one-word texts, actual conversation. She asks me if we can go on dates, and we even split the bill. But we go on a date, and dont really hang out for a week or two. She has no boyfriend and she hasnt been on any dates with any other guys... Whats going on??? Nothing good. NEXT!
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