Jay15 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 My ex gf called me couple weeks of ago intoxicated twice saying I love you, I miss you and asking me do you miss me and do you think we ever get back together. Last Friday she called intoxicated driving home alone. I was worried about her the moment cause it was late. Then she argue with me why I'm always asking her question where is she or who she with. It lead to "I'm moving on with my life and no more contact. Is she confuse with her feelings? I'm planning to go no NC. I need from another person point of view
CelticGibson Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Yes she's confused, confused with alcohol. I wouldn't read anything into it because each time she was under the influence. Her reaction to you when you asked who she was with and where she was should prove to you that you are better off going No Contact and let her sort her own stuff out. Remember watch what they do, not what they say. Words are like confetti, easily thrown without a thought.... 2
Author Jay15 Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 Yes she's confused, confused with alcohol. I wouldn't read anything into it because each time she was under the influence. Her reaction to you when you asked who she was with and where she was should prove to you that you are better off going No Contact and let her sort her own stuff out. Remember watch what they do, not what they say. Words are like confetti, easily thrown without a thought.... Thanks I'm going on vacation for a month out of the country in a couple of weeks. Hopefully she clears her mind
Chi townD Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 I agree, she's called you twice while she's been drinking and never once sober. That should make you buy a clue.
Author Jay15 Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 I agree, she's called you twice while she's been drinking and never once sober. That should make you buy a clue. Yea she been drinking alot lately. Since the semester are over. Should I go No contact until I get back from vacation?
fancy feast Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Yea she been drinking alot lately. Since the semester are over. Should I go No contact until I get back from vacation? Yep. Use the summer to clear your head. Forget about this for a while, and enjoy yourself.
Chi townD Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Yeah dude. Just remember, she just drunk dialed you. Nothing more; nothing less. Go on vacation. Have a great time! Have an awesome adventure! Meet some great people! Have fun with some lovely ladies! LET them show you around. Be open and friendly and KEEP BUSY! Soak up everything!
Author Jay15 Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 Thanks everyone. I just finish my exams today. Sadly I have to wait two weeks and its going by slowly. :/
Chi townD Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Then keep busy. Always on the move. Pack and repack for your trip! Add things, take things out. Where are you going, by the way?
Author Jay15 Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 Thailand I'm not even sure it's a good place for vacation.lol but I'm going To be moving around different hotels every night. I didn't go last time with my family cause my ex gf who was I dating at the time didn't want to leave. So I wanted to experience with my family this time
Larry56 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Actually, if she drunk dialed you. that is a very good sign. But the problem now is that she feels like you are checking up on her. and Well, that's not attractive. So Yeah. She probably does feel something for you. But I would just wait a few weeks then start some light conversation.
Author Jay15 Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 Actually, if she drunk dialed you. that is a very good sign. But the problem now is that she feels like you are checking up on her. and Well, that's not attractive. So Yeah. She probably does feel something for you. But I would just wait a few weeks then start some light conversation. Thanks! Hopefully this vacation goes well. Yea I was making sure she was okay at the time. Her driving is bad, I just got worried at the time because she was driving buzzed at 1am alone.
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