Should I call her?

[The_Painter]

I try to keep this short. I met a girl. We talked online, she really liked my profile and I thought we were really similar and had so much in common. We met for a walk, it was nice.

 

Since that I tried to make new plans with her, but she was busy with school. Later that week we made plans to meet on sunday. We talked on the phone on saturday and she actually asked me if I wanted to go on a double date with her and her friend (and asked if I had any single friends for her friend). It was on such short notice that I couldn't get any friend to come with. I didn't want to go on a date with her and her friend so I decided to meet her on sunday.

 

So sunday morning, a couple of hours before our date she texted me and said that she had been partying the night before and wasn't feeling like going on a date (hangover).

 

At this point I was pissed since I had cancelled other plans to meet her. I send her a text saying that I was looking forward to seeing her, but maybe we shouldn't waste each others time. She replied that she was sorry.

 

No contact since. Now it has been a couple of weeks, and I'm wondering if I should call her. I really thought I saw something in her. But I don't want to come off as needy.

 

Any advice?

[mortensorchid]

Don't call her. You never even met for the first time so don't stress about it. If she's interested enough after that cancelation then she should contact you to reschedule. I would if I were to meet someone and then had to cancel it. It's been weeks, the ship sailed.

[The_Painter]

I guess you are right. But we did meet once. I just thought maybe I was too harsh on my response after her flaking...

[Forever Learning]

I guess you are right. But we did meet once. I just thought maybe I was too harsh on my response after her flaking...

 

You only live ONCE. Call her, go for it, have fun. Life is good. Do what feels right. Call her!

[StanMusial]

Doesn't sound like she liked you that much. Probably best to drop it.