PCS991 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 (edited) Hi All, I found the Loveshack website googling various keywords about dating questions. Everything I will post will be complete and honest, I truly feel thats the only way to get proper feedback, otherwise I'm just kidding myself and wasting your time and mine, so in advance I appreciate everyones input. During the last holiday season (2012) my sister introduced me to one of her best friends. Since then we have gone out many times together and with friends, talked, texted and emailed often and I even recently stayed in her home for 2 weeks however there was no sleeping together whatsoever but we had a GREAT time and I didn't want to leave and I am positive she felt the same, unfortunately I had to go back home, I live one state away. A little about the two of us: We are both in our 50's and very fit and attractive, well dressed and successful, she actually much more successful than I. Neither of us has ever been married, no children, both fun to be around. She is an Alpha Female, I teeter between Alpha and Beta, in my earlier days all Alpha but I have mellowed some. She is retired I still work. My concern/question: She has in conversation with my sister said "you know your brother has a crush on me", she has said this 3-4 times to my sister. My sister finally said to her "well, is that a bad thing?" and she replied that I'm awesome and all of that but she isn't attracted to me in that way... Now I know some of you don't need to read on any further in order to comment but I'm here to say that I KNOW she is attracted to me in some way. I say this only because after 2 weeks together there were two occasions where I absolutely did not confuse the signals I was getting from her. On one night we were all having dinner as a group and she got up and went into the other room and one of her girlfriends looked at me and said "my name", BE COOL, play along. Kinda like wink wink nod nod. Was this girl telling me I may have a chance if I do this? Sounds to me like this girl has certainly been filled in by my lady friend. So: Why would she approach my sister 3 maybe 4 times and tell my sister I have a crush on her? I have yet to "hit" on her. Secondly...why would she tell my sister she isn't attracted to me? We are really a great couple when we are together If there is any more input you might need just ask me, I really appreciate everyones personal opinion here. Thanks Edited May 13, 2013 by PCS991
MsSmurf Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Your crush on her feeds her ego and she digs that. You're both in your 50s so I highly doubt she is playing a game here. If she told your sister she isn't into you knowing full well that would get back to you then that's the deal. She's just not that into you. Nothing wrong with being friends and flirting a little, but that's all it is.
Author PCS991 Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 You are probably right. Oh well, it was fun. Thanks for replying
Author PCS991 Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 Your crush on her feeds her ego and she digs that. You're both in your 50s so I highly doubt she is playing a game here. If she told your sister she isn't into you knowing full well that would get back to you then that's the deal. She's just not that into you. Nothing wrong with being friends and flirting a little, but that's all it is. Actually MsSmurf, You ARE right. It's off.
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