Tink19 Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 My first relationship just ended. We dated over a year and a half. He was my first kiss as well as first experience in everything else (saving sex until marriage tho). Will any of that not be as special with my next bf? Will it move faster then? Since he was my first bf we grew together in that stuff. He was just like me so we agreed on everything as well as limits and what we liked. Me and my ex bf were both strong Christians and I loved that. Will I ever find someone so much like me? I liked having no expectations of my first bf and him having none of me. Will it be difficult now? Is it weird to start over with a whole new guy?
Casablanca Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Never been an issue for me, the best kissing and sexual experiences I've had is with someone I connect with and I've never really compared. If I'm seeing someone, that is the only person I like, therefore the only person I'm going to have a super great experience with
todreaminblue Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 My first relationship just ended. We dated over a year and a half. He was my first kiss as well as first experience in everything else (saving sex until marriage tho). Will any of that not be as special with my next bf? Will it move faster then? Since he was my first bf we grew together in that stuff. He was just like me so we agreed on everything as well as limits and what we liked. Me and my ex bf were both strong Christians and I loved that. Will I ever find someone so much like me? I liked having no expectations of my first bf and him having none of me. Will it be difficult now? Is it weird to start over with a whole new guy? kudos on the sex after marriage........ kissing a new boyfriend is as special as if you have never kissed before.......because you have never kissed that guy before that's fact...your first kiss will be memorable if not a little awkward..........and as you get to know what and how he likes to be kissed and how you like to be kissed he starts to know...there is nothing more special than that..the smiles shared before and after...its wonderful........kissing to me is highly intimate have kissed very few men in my life time....cheek kisses yeah...but intimately kissed....its a no.......i hold it special.......it is one thing i can hold special....close to my heart...my other choices were taken from em from a young age and i feel this is my choice to give...always have felt that way....and any guy i kiss....its like the first time... i only ever kiss a guy i am in a relationship with....i am blessed to have this special thing.......i hold it so close to me......tears me up actually....... it is so special an act.......kudos to you..dont worry about kissing not being special.......it always was meant to be and so therefore is and you will feel that special thing again.......deb
ChessPieceFace Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 (edited) My first relationship just ended. We dated over a year and a half. He was my first kiss as well as first experience in everything else (saving sex until marriage tho). Will any of that not be as special with my next bf? Will it move faster then? Since he was my first bf we grew together in that stuff. He was just like me so we agreed on everything as well as limits and what we liked. Me and my ex bf were both strong Christians and I loved that. Will I ever find someone so much like me? I liked having no expectations of my first bf and him having none of me. Will it be difficult now? Is it weird to start over with a whole new guy? As you can tell by some of the responses, the general populace will NOT respect your (Christian) beliefs regarding sex. If you try to date generally, you'll probably have a similar problem (although you could state on dating sites your religious preference and how important it is to you.) Maybe you could meet someone at your church... if not, it might be a tall order to fill. I should probably add that while I was raised Christian and support many of its standards, I don't really consider myself a "believer" now and furthermore I believe that "no sex until marriage" is punitive toward men, especially in 2013. If you wanted to be fair about that, then you could just hang out as friends and the guy would not spend a dime on you, and in return you give him no sex. THAT would be fair, but you can see a guy would never get anywhere without spending money. Edited May 14, 2013 by ChessPieceFace
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